SEX LIFE (WHERE IS THE WORLD GOING TO)

Read Mathew 24:1-35
1-Adultery is authorized in South Africa, no man or woman has the right to get separated from their partner because he/she committed adultery
2-The US agreed that for better relationships with the world super powers, all the countries of the
world must accept homosexual marriage (woman +woman=1 or man+man= 1)
3- Germany just signed a law that declares the non-existence of incest (Brothers and sisters can now get married, mothers and their sons, fathers and their daughters.)
4- The city of Miami is from now proclaimed public sex sales city, meaning that any where you feel the need arise you can go ahead and satisfy yourself (even in church).
5- Canada has authorized bestiality (sex with animals). In Spain, pornographic movies are authorized in secondary schools and universities.
6- Prostitution for minors has been authorized. Marg Luker states that every young lady from the age of 10 starts feeling sexual pleasure and no one should hinder her from discovering how her body works.
7- Finaly, the US have authorized and made public satanic churches. Dear brother and sisters, the end is near, the glorious departure will soon be here. Christians are letting themselves be distracted by the devil who intends to drag along as many souls as possible away from divine mercy. Let's
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STOLEN, 419 AND SEX REMAIN UNSEEN or UNIDENTIFIED UNTIL WHEN PROVED;

 Ephesians:5:12 -13 it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.5:13 But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light. Click here http://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/sex-or-love-making-… to read SEX OR LOVE MAKING REMAIN SPIRITUAL THINGS UNTIL WHEN PROVE :

MESSAGES:


Stealing: The rate at which crimes is increasing everyday, Nigerian Policemen / Vigilantly Officers can no longer handle them, but before we proceed let me give you a brief explanation of (STEALING) To take illegally, or without the owner's permission, something owned by someone else. When you illegally take something that does not belong to you if caught, it become an offense punishable under state or Federal government law but if not caught an investigation we commence by a sign Investigation Officer until he/she locate the actual person that carry out the act and still punished them accordingly :

 Furthermore some thieves exhibited their act on daylight basis while some in the middle of night when everybody is sleeping and if not caught at that moment it means it we take longer before you locate the actual victim or those that participated in the stealing. I can recall back then during my 100 level when I used to travel and hustle at Benin City Edo State, I meet a lot of bad guys including the two bad guys that broke my head collected my newly brought Samsung fillip handset at Sapkomba road Benin city Edo State and also collected some cash from me. A report was made at Sapele Road Police command but on getting there, the guys ran away meaning No suspect and no case recorded, the same thing happens when a groups of 419 deceived me and collected the Sum of Fifty thousand naira only (N50K), at same Sapele road Benin city still I made an entry at same Police station but couldn't get my money back from them and also the one that happen at Oshodi Lagos when I was working with one Chinese man company (Double Star Investment Limited Arepo Magboro Ogun State, when a group of unidentified guys picked the sum of Thirty five thousand naira (N35K) from my bag, even the one that happened at an OBA OF EJIGBO business plaza when an unidentified guys enter my ICT center and made a way with my Laptop and a Digital camera click here https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/a-nigeria-drama-ba… to read A NIGERIAN DRAMA BASE ON TRUE LIFE STORY:

And Finally the one that recently happens in our compound at Ogini Road Ogharefe Oghara Delta State where they broke into our kitchen made away with our Four corner Stove ,6 iron pot , 5 Litters of kerosene , one pent of Garri ,One pent of rice etc, and  i also made a report at Oghara Police Station Oghara Delta state yet didn't get my things back.  What am i trying to picture out here, HUNGRY, LAZINESS and PRIDE can either lead to Stealing; Prostitution or 419.  Nevertheless, 419 and Prostitution is like a game even the Edo State Government participated in playing the game,  for more understanding on how Edo State government participated in playing the game read article (DELTA STATE GOVERNMENT TO BE USING BENIN EDO STATE ELECTRICITY BILLS FOR PAYMENT) by clicking here https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com.ng/2017/05/delta-state-government-to-be-using.html.

Prostitution and 419 is game if you play smart you become wealthy and superior and when you missed the game you either welcome a new baby or you end up inside prison or even get kill by Vigilantly men/ a Mobile Police officers: . For more update about this article visit nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

DELTA STATE GOVERNMENT TO BE USING BENIN EDO STATE ELECTRICITY BILLS FOR PAYMENT

The electricity become the major problem facing Nigeria as whole , as you can see the images below and the address on top of it.

 For few weeks now ,  i have being on a business tour and research acquisition and that lead me to take a closer look at Delta state electricity bills and the address on top of the bills. imagine Ogharaefe , Ogharaeki, and Mosugar community of Delta state using Benin City electricity bills, (Benin Electric Distributor PLC Apkapkava Head Office Benin city) to be specific.

 Is only in Nigeria that you can see someone working at Sokoto and received his or her payment or Salary at Kebi State . This is a broad daylight Rubbering , how can Edo State government bypass and steal from Delta State government! Nigeria needs restructure ,this is a call for better governance . Before Delta State can boast of constant electricity is when their politicians we learn how to change their ways of governance. Delta State is being blessed with a lot of resources how will Ogharaefe, Ogharaeki and Mosugar sharing same electricity bills with Benin city, what happens to Delta state budget.

According to our writers who hold face to face interview with one of Ogharaefe Youth leader ,it was observed that the problem is not a things of today ,their electricity problems is from their corrupt politicians who uses the means for campaigning and after the election nothing is done about it . For more update about this article visit nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED*

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime .
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Silence can never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, you must do
what no one has done.
5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a
person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy
you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone than to be
married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. 3 men to avoid:
a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a
happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who will not be
yoked to God.
11. 3 words that echo peace in a marriage:
a. I love you .
b. I am sorry .
c. Thank you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling
on your singleness.
13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure .
14. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.
15. Masturbation is destruction.
16. *Marriage without friendship is like a sky
without the sun.*
17. *If you rush into marriage, you may end up
with someone who* *will bury your destiny.*
18. *A successful marriage is always a triangle :
God, a man and a woman.*
19. Why you marry is as important as who you
marry.
20. Much happiness in life depends on your
marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in
choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks; no
woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a
woman:
a. Fear of God.
b. Wisdom.
c. Discretion (beauty is vanity).
24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show
her love excessively - as a rule, women don't run
away from where they're pampered.
25. *Love is not blind;*
*infatuation and lust are blind.*
26. Love puts God first,
lust puts sex first.
27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if it is absent, God is not there.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. *Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.*
33. *It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.*
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing God to
be married than to be married and believing in
God to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a failed
marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property, marry a
person.
39. Be presentable.
*REMEMBER, THE WORST PLACE AFTER HELL FIRE IS BAD MARRIAGE. THEREFORE, WATCH, THINK AND PRAY BEFORE GOING INTO IT.*
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LADIES WITH WEALTHY MARRIAGE AND FAME

 I am quiet aware that what I am about to say may sound silly in your sense of judgement, but on a more serious note, ladies need to ponder on first few paragraphs of it, because it is for their own personal consumption.Before I proceed, I must, however, plead to the young ladies not to cast aspersions on me for saying that they are competing too much with the men in all ramifications.
 
In our society today, single guys are struggling to make enough money and fame. In the same vein, some single girls are also doing the same. This is good, in fact, very very good for the upkeep of our crawling and crumbling economy. However, inasmuch as I believe so much in hardwork, wealth and fame, regardless of who acquires it, I do not think that single ladies should emphasize TOO MUCH on acquiring so much money and fame. Rather, it is my opinion that at a point in their hustling, they should pause for a while and then begin to hustle for the man who will marry them (except if a woman really dont care about marraige). After succeeding in getting a life partner, she can then continue her hustling. I said this, because a woman who aspires to get married may find it difficult to find a husband who truly love her when she had already acquired so much wealth and fame to herself. Secondly, men who truly love her but were not equal to her status may find it difficult to approach a woman of such calibre, and those whose status is equal to the status of the woman may be afraid of power tussle. Thirdly, those men who claim to love her may be doing so because of her money and fame. Hence, a tendency for the woman to marry the wrong man or to even spend her entire life without a life partner.
 
All these presumptions and conclusions are borne out of my casual observations, as well as
interactions with the vast majority of single guys of Igbo extraction.
One thing is pertinent in Igbo nation, such is that, real Igbo men cannot afford to be under the control of any woman for whatever reason. This, I believed, have accounted for the reasons why a right-thinking Igbo man would want to put things in order before marraige so as to reserve his
power as the head of both the house, wife, properties and family. It may, or may not be perculiar in your own
immediate environment, but I bet you, a man who often dance to the lyrics of a flute being played by a woman is bound to receive insult from her female flutist. Even when she has nothing to complain about, she would abuse the man for not putting the right steps in dancing to the lyrics of her flute. Quote me right! You can begin to say your own now. I have said my own. For more gist visit

THE OGUN STATE ROAD MAINTENANCE:

The pictures below shows a recent developments made by members of Ogun and Lagos State JUDICIAL arms of government for Illegal Termination of an Appointment by Louis Valentino Limited Managing Director beside punch news papers Magboro, Ogun State under President Buhari Government. Read, FRAUDULENT COMPANY ALWAYS DISOBEY NIGERIA GOVERNMENT for more information by clicking here. https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/fraudulent-compani… .
Meanwhile according to our reporter that visited the Headquarters of Reformed Ogboni Fraternity ;Address: Iledi Akarigbo street Eleja Shagamu Ogun State .Two weeks after the visitation, a members of Ogun state road maintenance team commence work at a Road leading to Ajegunle street Opposite PEFAC Factory, Ajegunle Shagamu, Ogun State and another road leading to Legunse Ilupeju ,Isale Ijagba, off Sabo area GRA,Shagamu Ogun state. 

According to the reporter, the main reason for maintaining the road is to compensate the Angry Youth, business men and women that make use of the Ogun state Electricity which is not constant for few weeks now keeping the whole state in total darkness .Read STILL ON HUSTLING for More understanding by clicking here https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/still-on-hustling-…

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A NIGERIA DRAMA BASED ON LIFE STORY

Watch out for the continuation of a drama between Managing Director of Louis Valentino Limited beside punch news paper Magboro Ogun State, Nigerian Top Secret blogger and Yoruba Movie Stars :It all started when I rented a shop at OBA of Ejigbo business complex, 4 Ifoshi road Iyana Ejigbo Lagos state .click https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/2017/02/the-leo.html to read LEO for more understanding . There is a boy call Samuel who use to work for me at my ICT Centre / Cyber Cafe (OBINOTECH) the boy is very good in a system, and as a Boss I like him, not until when they stole my Laptop and a Digital camera at my office in which i replace another one and ask him to invite his father.

 After my conversation with his father, he left. One day he was not that comfortable and I ask him, what the matter Samuel?, should I add money to your salary? but Samuel reply was no, I'm not working for you again my father want us to relocate to our house at Ijebu Ode Ogun State.I have no other option than to replace him with another person. It is an IT student call AYO same OBINOTECH but unfortunately the business went down when my landlord who happens to be an OBA of Ejigbo cousins started to complains about my generator that always make noise and also disturbed them, I have to relocate to Ojota ,rent out the office space at Ejigbo and rented another appointment there. Below are the pictures of how angry youth destroyed my door net and windows for my newly rented apartment at Ojota simply because they see me as an OBA or a Yoruba CHIEF and some people didn't see anything to collect from me as an OBA .

Images of broken door net and windows by angry youth who needs money from OBA OBINOTECH

Yesterday before I came from Ogun state in other to hustle for an Electricity as demanded by Louis Valentino limited Managing director as requested before my salary we be paid by the company. Furthermore I remember years back when I was schooling at Ilorin kwara State,I have a worker at my computer center call Odunayo Amigun. Few months now during research at Ijebu Ode, I was shock to see a YORUBA ACTORS USING THE SAME STORYLINE TO MAKE MONEY please try and watch a Yoruba Drama Call SAMUEL THE ALAJO part 1 to 4 very interested film why the part 5 and 7 is, ( AMIGUN THE OGA OGA),. The newly acted drama is taking about one Yoruba Chief called (BALE) who is using magical powers to disturbed Nigeria Policemen:

I think the part 8 and 9 Should be Louis Valentino Limited Managing Director needs light (Electricity) before he pay his staffs salary.  You can as well buy a CD plates from Haruna Ishola titled Manchines and listen to the names of all my friends during the time I was schooling including the one I meet year 2002 during my WAEC Exam at Odopotu Community Grammar School Odopotu Ijebu Ode Ogun State . Such names :like Abiodun, likewise the one meet at E.Stream Network limited Lagos Island also named Engineer Abiodun please in other to confirm the story buy Haruna Ishola tap titles Manchines. For more update visit nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

BY FORCE MARRIAGE AND WHITE WEDDING

I have a question to ask here. It may look stupid in your sense of reasoning, but it is a question of mind boggling complexity. As you read further, you may need to nip your religious sentiment in
the bud.

Often time when some marriages fail, the couples involved would only say, "that is how God wants it". In my own view, I don't think God wants it that way. He wouldn't have allowed both of you to meet each other in the first place if he had wanted it that way. I have seen many successfully wedded couples who divorced each other with little or no cogent reason, as well as others who lived happily after their wedding ceremonies.

I have also seen many couples who did not even partake in any white-wedding but live a married life worthy of emulation, as well as some others who did not wed but didn't live happily. I'am sure that I am not the only one who must have noticed all these. Having observed all these, my thoughts and observations landed me at two major conclusions stated herein:
1. Dragging your wife or husband to the alter as most intending couple do these days is not even a guarantee to a successful marriage. Rather, a guarantee to successful marriage, I think is embedded on perseverance, good understanding and love, not on classy wedding ceremonies.
2. Even if one did not wed, it is not also a guarantee that the couples would have worst marriage ever. A worst marriage, I think is precipitated by lack of the aforementioned three
(3) key elements. To me, the essence of all the white-wedding is to keep the couples together for better and for worst, in pains and in joys etc...! However, I'am sorry to say that couples of recent times only do it for the fun inheren in it, not for the purpose it was designed for. Ladies and gentlemen, before you resolve to live forever till death do you apart, be sure that you persevere, love, cherish and understand each other.
Now, let me come down a little bit. If you agree with me that white-wedding ceremony is not a
guarantee for happy and successful marraige, do you see it as a waste of resources or not? In fact, what is the hullabaloo about? You may need to consider the underlisted facts in your judgment...
1. White-wedding is not part of our culture and prior to its emergence, our grandfathers lived happily with minimal cases of divorce
2. Every girl wants her wedding to be the best. Hence, compelling their potential husband to waste the money that would be used to build the family on luxuries
3. Significant number of men borrow excessively to foot wedding bills just to impress their wives. Subsequently, they use about two or three years of their marraige to offset their various debts
4. There are some men of God who sees it as an instrument of exploitation
5. In every tradition in Igbo land, once the bride price is paid during the traditional marraige, the couples are pronounced married and therefore blessed by the parents and nothing stops them from living together from that very day
6. Most couples are just doing it for doing sake. They want to do what mr. A and B did without comparing their financial muscles. Hence, they see themselves conforming to what is trending.

In conclusion however, some of my female friends here may salute me with the conventional
saying which posits that, "only men without money often say that expensive soap scratches their body when used for bathing purpose". No worries about that, you can only say that because the money doesn't come from your purse. I just want to remind you that there are some things we do which does not add any value to our lives merely because its purpose is not known. I have said my own. Now, you can begin
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STILL ON HUSTLING THE OGUN ELECTRICITY

 The situation is becoming critical as the Ogun State power stations is totally down ,the youth are bitterly annoyed while the business men and women's that make used of the electricity are complaining of low sales due to non constant of the electricity. According to our writer that interview one of the official of Ibadan Electric Distribution Company Shagamu office, during the interview ,It was noted that the problem is from our corrupted politician while promising that the problem we be surely resolved as they are working harder to make sure that the Ogun State electricity problem we be restored so that those who pay for the services can fully enjoyed their money.

 Blew are the images taking

Furthermore,  the Louis Valentino Limited Production Manager that need road is now enjoying it as the Julius's Begger Construction Company are now working day and night to make sure they finished their ROAD construction on time.

 Blew is the images taking from lagos Ibadan expressway constructed by Julius beggar Construction company 

 Finally a personal visitation was made at various schools at Ogun State to confirm if the teacher's are not making mistakes while teaching the students. for more understanding of these article read The Practice Of Boko hara in an Organization by clicking. https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/the-practicing-of-… or copy and paste to read 

 Blew are the images

Meanwhile a proper sanitation has been made throughout Ogun state and all unuseful charm and medicine has been uprooted by members of prayer warriors, while we are still waiting for pay from the managing Director of Louis Valentino limited besides punch news papers Magboro Ogun State.

Below is the pictures taken during our visitation:

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VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION

I get lots of questions on masturbation even when I have talked about it on this platform. This questions are most especially asked by ladies - yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious
issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex. Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may
stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non- virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself). From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin. So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at theseame time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:
1. Masturabation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.
4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving
your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!
5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN
MARRIAGE!
6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities
other wise known as spiritual spouse).
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.
8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the  real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscous.
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
11. You are at risk of hell fire! These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are
powerful sexual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.
4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channelled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I burnt the energy on my studies. I also started my ministry and was very committed as my fellowship bible study co-ordinator. If you don't burn that energy, you will have sex.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6. Pray and speak in tongues always. It sanctifies you.
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
10. Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you out. Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you.Call on him! 07038357482 girls only God bless you. Good morning
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THE PRACTICING OF BOKO HARAM IN AN ORGANIZATION

I see No reason why some people are against Western Education. The Managing Director of Louis Valentino Limited besides punch News Papers Magboro Ogun State has vow to break the Educational ethics by choosing to follow the Saudi Arabia ways of handling organization dispute called Boko Harams ways. for more understanding of this article visit. Fraudulent Companies and how it Disobey Nigerian Government https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/…/fraudulent-compani… They say western Education is very bad whereas they send their children to the highest school to acquired the knowledge .They say after a successful work well done in a month ,a salary should be the reward but they bypass and decided to follow shot cut by using Guns and cutlass to correct money from governments .They say Policemen or Civil defence should be the one in settling civil dispute but the case is now different .I think this is a personal insult to Nigerian teachers and Lecturers in our schools and Institution,enough is enough , the national laws should been maintained for more update visit nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

FEMALE CAREERIST AND THE MAID

A careerist is described as a person who tend to love and as well pay more attention to his career
more than anything else. A female who displays such attitude is therefore regarded as a female careerist. On the other hand, a male who displays such attitude is to be described as a male careerist. As the number of female careerist continues to rise in the face of economic difficulty, many married women who loved their work more than their children begins to talk about the difficulties of coping with work and caring for their homes. This unspeakable act, however, accounted for some of the reasons why some well-to-do men
prevented their wives from practicing their career. After arranging in her mind, her perceived difficulties in order of their magnitudes, the female careerist on her own begins to ask some of her married colleagues in the workplace how they were able to manage their own homes together with their works.
Subsequent to this resurgence, mama Nkechi, a co-worker begins to tell her that she had a maid who undertakes all her house chores. She talks further, trying to also convince the female careerist that she can't possibly take care of her children without a maid. Mama Emeka, another of her colleague, also unveiled how she pressurized his own husband before he could get her a full-time maid.
At this point, the female careerist registers her colleague's words in her brain, longing to see her husband as soon as he returns from work.

In an attempt to reduce her difficulties, she begins to highlight to her husband, the need for a maid. In response to the demand of her wife, the man begins to critically look into his extended family in search of whom to take as a house-help. In many cases when the man have searched within his immediate family but couldn't find any, he begins to relate the problem to friends for help. The buttom line here is that the man often do everything within his reach to provide the said maid.
It is no doubt that the ‘house-help’, ‘maid’ or ‘servant’ has become synonymous with most careerists' families in our society. There maids work behind closed doors in private homes, carrying out domestic chores including cleaning of rooms and furniture, washing of clothes and plates, preparation of food, running errands and escorting their employers’ children to and from school. While doing the aforementioned and many more, the female careerist would either be in the parlor watching television or in her room relaxing her
body. This is the kind of woman who would have the temerity to tell someone that she is not in any way friend to the kitchen but she's friend to all kinds of delicacies. This is the kind of woman who would expect her maid to brush her own teeth and rinse it with water. This is the kind of woman who calls on the maid to cut her finger and toe nails. This is the kind of woman who never allowed her children to learn a simple act
of washing ordinary plates. Most of these female careerist keep over-hitting only their maid with housechores, thinking they are doing good to their own children by not
allowing them learn little things they ought to know. Inasmuch as I condemn these female careerists who solely depends on maids for everything, I also commend some good-hearted and well-
mannered women who never engage in such.anomaly.
It is not my wish to make this post a lenghty one, neither is it my wish to dive into the benefits accrueing to children when engaged in house chores. However, for the sake of some female careerists who may have read many lines of this article, I will do so. Research have shown that children who engaged
in chores are more successful as adults. Dr. Martin Rossman from the University of Minnesota undertook a longitudinal study where subjects were followed up over a period of 20 years. The study revealed that one of the best predictors of a child’s success is if he or she began helping with household chores at age 3 to
4. To add to this, I would tentatively say that children who are exposed to chores also learn to
work very well with others. If you have more than one child for example, compel them to work on a chore together. If not, you can have your child complete different jobs along with you. You could teach them how to assign themselves different roles, because it teaches them to be flexible. For example, one night you could wash the plates while your child rinse or dry them. You could decide to switch roles the next night.
You dont need to solely depend on a maid. Your home can be successfully managed in the absence of a maid. Remember, the person you called a maid is also another person's child. Why not teach your own children house-hold chores, or atleast create avenue for them to learn from the maid? If they learn from you, it would have been a better option for you.
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