Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Photo: See the faces of the men who stabbed Emmanuel Sithole to death in SA

These four men accused of stabbing Mozambican man Emmanuel Sithole to death on Saturday April 18th appeared in court today and were later remanded in prison. SA Police released their photo on Twitter. Check out the photo from the attack and see if it's the same men. See here and here

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Photos: Is this really the General Hospital in Otukpo, Benue?

According to this twitter user @Davydhabba, this is how the General Hospital Otukpo in Benue State looks like. Is this for real? See more photos after the cut...



Patience Jonathan, Orubebe, Others To Be Sanctioned by US


America is not ready to joke with trouble makers in Nigeria. First, it was the extradition of PDP Ogun central senator-elect Buruji Kashamu to the United States but gradually the flood light of the US seems to beam on wife of the President, Patience Jonathan and others who attempted to disrupt the just concluded elections or instigated violence against innocent Nigerians.

Along with Patience Jonathan, ex-Niger Delta minister, Godsday Orubebe and governor of Katsina state, Ibrahim Shema are going to be sanctioned by America.

The US Assistant Secretary of State for African Affairs, Linda Thomas-Greenfield, said in a statement that the US will shut its doors on people involved in any form of violence during the polls.
“Anyone found to have incited violence or interfered with electoral processes will be unwelcome in the United States and subject to visa sanctions,” Ms. Thomas-Greenfield said.

Although Thomas-Greenfield did not give names of those considered for sanctions, Patience Jonathan, Orubebe, Shema and others who became an item on social media across the globe for inciting violence and trying to scuttle the elections seems to have positioned themselves for this sanction.

Thomas-Greenfield said, while the elections were generally without a significant scale of violence, and irregularities in some parts of Nigeria, some people were resolved to undermine the will of Nigerians and interfere with electoral processes, resorting to violence.

It would be recalled that Patience Jonathan incited violence during a PDP Women Campaign in Calabar, Cross River state, when she said that anyone chanting APC's ‘Change’ should be stoned.

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Thomas-Greenfield said US looked forward to the inauguration of the president elect, Muhammadu Buhari, on May 29 and the beginning of a new chapter of the relationship between the two countries.

Actress Ibinabo Fiberesima and Husband Playing Sweet Love


The only problem is that her husband is not as excited as she is. Of course, it's not easy for the man who is spending all the money to be laughing and dancing all the way like the woman. *wink*

It’s Up to You to Win Back the Love of Your Cheating Husband


I’ve learned the most common reason a husband tells his wife he doesn’t love her any more is because of his ‘new babe’. Discovering that your husband has fallen out of love with you or is ‘involved’ with another woman is simply horrible. Your heart races, it feels like a huge bowl of eba is lodged in your stomach and your mind starts working overtime.

Why is he doing this? You’ve been a loyal and supportive wife, after all. He’s got a lovely home and children who adore him. What more does he want?

Of course, you’re not perfect – who is? But you’re not the one sending inappropriate texts to another woman's husband. You’re just trying to hold the family together. If only he’d grow up and start acting his age. Any woman who finds herself in this situation has my sympathy.

Though there is always hope, the weeks and months ahead are going to be really tough. But while it might surprise you, the person whose behaviour needs to change is YOU - the wife.

If your husband’s been behaving badly, understandably it’s tempting to label him as the problem, but this side-steps your part in unravelling of your marriage and what made him unhappy enough to look elsewhere.
Ultimately, Andrew Marshal, author of: 'My Husband Doesn’t Love Me...', and a respected marital counsellor believes the only person we can change is ourselves and that should be the firs step in rescuing any marriage in crisis. Here, he shows how, with a bit of honesty and several helpings of humble pie, women can begin the process of reviving the most unsalvageable marriage and win back the love of a cheating man.

He’s the one cheating, but you the wife must apologise: The first step towards recovery need you to commit to change. And while you’ve probably said you are sorry a million times before to keep the peace, have you made a full apology? This is one that acknowledges your unhelpful behaviour (e.g. taking him for granted), express sorrow and a determination to change, as is sincere. In particular, do you need to apologise for nagging, a habit that could be destroying your relationship?

Acknowledge that it must make him feel constantly criticized. Promise not to nag again and that he should say something if he catches you doing it. Though it is tempting to add an explanation for your nagging. It can sound as if you’re excusing yourself and therefore lessens the power of your apology. Ultimately, if your husband thinks you spend the majority of your time complaining, nagging or getting angry, he will feel that all the joy has been sucked out of your relationship.

What you should do next: Don’t ban contact with the other woman. If your husband is still in touch with another woman, it’s tempting to lay down the law and say ‘no contact’. Understandably, you want her out of your life, but over and over again, I’ve seen this back fire. First, he’s been self-medicating his own unhappiness with attention from another woman, so, if you cut off his ‘supply’, of course he’ll crave another hit. Worse still, it’ll mean you start checking on his actions so he feels distrusted – not a good environment for working on your relationship. Plus, it’s controlling behaviour, and who wants to be with a controlling partner?

Don’t complain if he moves in with her:
While I’m not a fan of temporary separations – it makes it harder for you to communicate and there are fewer opportunities to work on your relationship – there’s an upside to him moving in with the other woman. His ‘true love’ will be tested for the first time. Slowly, real life and day-to-day domesticity will intrude into their fantasy. He will have to deal with her surly teenage son. She will discover all his nasty habits. It is not exactly Romeo and Juliet. As long as you don’t drive them together – by abusive phone calls, being unreasonable about access to the children and so on = it is highly likely that their relationship will implode.

Meet her yourself:
A very personal decision that could make the situation worse, but can also leave you with a better sense of proportion about their relationship and provide her with a more balanced picture of yours. So she might find out, for example, you’re still having sex or have been reading her texts to your husband. As one client told me after she confronted the female colleague her husband had been having an affair with: ‘This woman was a demon-like figure in my mind, making me question why I wasn’t good enough any more for my husband. But she wasn’t any more attractive than me, and frankly seemed very insecure and self-orientated. I was reassured she had no deep feelings for my husband. The demons were exorcised the day I met her. I left feeling in control and relieved there was one less obstacle to rebuilding our marriage”.

A few words of warning:
If you know where she lives, don’t go to her home on the spur of the moment – you will most likely be angry or frightened and this will not promise clear thinking. Also, if you arrange a meeting by text, remember you’re not two friends getting together for a chat, so put a time limit on it. Remember that everything you say and do will most likely be relayed back to your husband, and don’t do anything – such as becoming aggressive – that could invite retaliation.

The six types of women who could kill your marriage
The Spark: She might be at work, at the gym or maybe she’s even one of your friends. She might be happily married and has just taken pity on a work colleague who’s down. Perhaps they just share the same interest? In fact she might not have given him any encouragement, but she’s lit a spark and got him thinking and it’s not good news for your marriage.

The special friend: You probably already know her name because when someone is consumed by someone else, they can’t stop talking about them. It’s hard to know the exact point when friendship becomes betrayal. It’s fine to text a friend and discuss problems when you’re fed up. But hundreds of texts in a month is not just friendship. When your partner stops mentioning her, you will assume it’s cooled, but that’s when it’s hotted up, and the ‘friend’ starts covering her tracks.

The online connection: Your husband might think flirting online is just a bit of fun. Unfortunately, he’s being incredibly naïve. At some point on-line flirting has to progress, otherwise it wither and dies. And when you don’t heed to deal with everyday reality, it is easy to think you’ve found your soul-mate.

The emotional affair: At this point, your husband and the other woman will have declared their feelings for each other. They will be putting more and more energy into each other – and leaving both their marriages with just the scraps. The lovers may swear that they have ‘only kissed’. Even so, this is not a chaste kiss that you’d give your grandmother.

The full-blown affair: The full package – emotional and physical infidelity. Some husbands will insist it’s only about sex, and these are normally quick to sever all contact with their mistress. When the full-blown affair has been emotional too, your husband might claim he wants to save your marriage, but often, he will remain secretly in touch and keep his options open.

The love of his life: Your worst nightmare. He’ll tell you they are ‘soul mates’. He might feel ‘bad for hurting you’, but he’s openly seeing her. But please don’t panic. The truth is he doesn’t really know her and their relationship hasn’t had to deal with cold, hard reality yet. He only thinks she is the love of his life because that’s the only way to justify hurting his wife and family so much.

At the end, it is the work of the wife to satisfty her husband, love him without reservation, give "it" to him better than any lady outside can give him, if you want to keep your marriage give "it" to him everyday unless you are sick, make sure your husband sees and feels that you respect him. Be loving and prayerful. Then, you will win!

Meet Actor Van Vicker's Lovely Children and Beautiful Wife



To the ladies eyeing him, Van Vicker is a married man with a lovely family. Go on at your own risk. Lol!

How I Fixed My Breaking Home

Woman tells how she fixed her breaking home. Read below...
I was losing my family, I could feel it. My husband barely looked at me. He was polite and nice, kind even, addressing me like some stranger he had to live with. All the romance was gone. Every time we were out, I would catch him staring at some random woman, with the same longing I gazed at myself on our wedding portrait; a reminder of how beautiful and slender I once was. My sons didn’t want me to follow them to their classes anymore. They said they didn’t want to stress me, but I knew better. What did 12 year olds know about stress? They were ashamed of me, and I had grown ashamed of myself. I stopped looking at myself in the mirror, because I felt like a failure.
I had lost my confidence. Cecilia, my best friend, tried to encourage me to change what I didn’t like about myself. She said I did not have to live with it, and I should stop wallowing in self-pity. She said it like it was easy. She was so happy with her own marriage. She was the apple of her husband’s eye, and she swore that she worked her hardest to keep his attention. I was happy for her but I envied her, so I asked her to help me.  She bought me a Kim Waist Training Corset, and at first I was cynical. I had tried all these things before. Majority said exercise was the best but I did not have the strength to go about that. Not after the exercise of birthing two children. Cecilia assured me this brand was different and authentic. So I called in, and got directions on how to begin proper waist training with my corset. Within a few days I stopped eating as much as I used to. I just wasn’t as hungry anymore and when I was, I could only eat a small portion. Suddenly, my sons wanted me to come and speak to their teachers about this and that. “You look really good, mom. We just want our friends to see you.” they said proudly. One night, two months later I woke in shock as an arm draped around me in the middle of the night; my husband wanted to cuddle! My family was coming back together because I had taken the chance on Shape You, and I suddenly realized something; I was the glue that held my family together, so I owed it to them to hold myself together and be the best reflection of myself, for them.

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Obasanjo pictured at a Church Thanksgiving after he left prison in 1998

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo pictured at a Church Thanksgiving organized in his honour after he was released from prison in 1998. Photo credit: SeeMeSeeNigeria

Model Sarah Stage reveals her flat tummy just days after giving birth

Biko, how do you go from left to right just four days after giving birth? That can happen? Apparently, it did for fit model, Sarah Stage, the skinny mum who caused an uproar online with her barely-there baby bump.

Four days after welcoming a healthy baby boy (she was 9months pregnant in the left pic), she shared the photo on the right and wrote "4 days post baby. Total pregnancy weight gain was 28 pounds. I'm excited to resume my workouts in 5 weeks!" Wow!

Pretty OAP Gbemi Olateru Takes Selfie With Obasanjo

OAP Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi, ran into the former president of Nigeria, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo on a flight, while she was heading to California for World Radio Summit. She made good use of the opportunity and grabbed a selfie with him.

Man Destroys His Penis After Injecting it With Vaseline to Look Bigger (Photo)

A man was left with a swollen and painful penis thanks to injecting himself with petroleum jelly in the hope it would make his manhood bigger.

According to Daily Mail: Father-of-one Szilveszter, 24, who now lives in Bolton, feared he would never be able to have more children after the DIY procedure left him unable to have sex.

He said: “I had to stop having sex with my wife as it’s too painful. I would like to have more children but if I can’t have sex I may lose my family.


“Every day is difficult for me as it’s very painful and bleeding. This was the worst mistake in my life as I don’t feel like a real man.”
Hungarian born Szilveszter shares his story on the latest series of TLC show Extreme Beauty Disasters.

He said he had Vaseline injected into his penis following a friend’s recommendation.

He explains: “I said to my friend I want to lose weight as I think my penis is small. He said you don’t need to lose weight, I can help you. My friend injected in my penis Vaseline. Afterwards I was happy as it looked bigger.
But nine months later, his penis was swollen, painful and bleeding.”



He went to his GP and saw other doctors but all told him there was nothing they could do.

Szilveszter turned to Extreme Beauty Disasters resident plastic surgeon Dr Vik Vijh who said there was hope he could be cured – but it wouldn’t be easy.