Dear men, if you
are not yet married, this is the best piece of advice you need in your
life's journey. If you are already married but you are not comfortable
with the way your life or your marriage is going, do all you can to make
your wife go for prayers and deliverance in a white garment church or a
respected Pentecostal Church where a real deliverance can be conducted
for her.
Her deliverance
is much more important than the love you have for her. And I can tell
you for free, if your wife is refusing to go for deliverance or someone
in her family is making her dodge deliverance, just know that you are
married to a wrong lady that may wreck your destiny if you continue with
her.
Pull out of that
marriage for your own good and the sanity of your destiny. The truth
is, most ladies you see on the streets have certain spirit(s) inside
them, whether they know and admit it or not.
Deliverance is the only solution, forget "I love you" story! Read an elderly man's words of wisdom...
A renowned
artist and retired civil servant, 80-year-old Prince Alban Gogo-Anyanwu,
tells Mudiaga Afe of Punch about his life's journey thus far:
How long have you been married?
I have been married for about 45 years.
How would you describe your 45 years in marriage?
It has been
beautiful! This is so because my wife is the reason why I have lasted
this long. I am married with six sons. All my children are graduates.
Again, my wife gave me children that really understood me. If I teach
them, they would understand. If I blink my eyes, they know what I mean. I
have no complaints about any of my children. So, I am happy always,
especially because of my wife. Let everyone pray not to have a bad
wife. If you get a very good wife, you can live long.
When and where were you born?
I was born on July 27, 1934, in Oguta, Imo State. I hail from Umumbiri in Mbaise Local Government Area of Imo State.
You still look fit at 80. What is the secret?
In my younger
days, I was a very strong footballer. Recall I said I was a games
master. So, I was involved in a lot of football, table tennis and lawn
tennis then. Since I retired, I have devoted my time to writing. I love
writing on my life experiences so that children can learn from them. I
have written and published three books in the last three years; I am
preparing to write the fourth one. Also, I think what keeps me strong is
that I don’t keep malice or bitterness in my mind about anybody, no
matter how much the person has hurt me. This is a lesson I want so many
people to imbibe. Keep your spirit free and do not create a space for
bitterness in your heart. I do not have the ambition to build a
three-storey building with 10 flats on it or own many plots of land. I
do not have three cars at a time. I am contented with what I have. I
don’t cheat or tell lies. Again, I am mindful of what I eat and when I
eat. I make friends with everybody that comes my way. All these have
helped me live longer.
What is your favourite food?
My best meal is garri and what I would call pepper soup with vegetable sauce, with little or no salt.
What is your advice to the country’s leaders?
I will advise
them to think about God and the things he has created and do
accordingly. People should stop thinking about acquiring too much of
material things such as aircraft and cars because we did not come into
this world with any. The only thing that can help us solve certain
problems now is honesty, sincerity, integrity and speaking the truth. We
need to learn to do the right things at all times. When you are in
politics, think of serving the people who put you there. Be generous to
people and help them solve their problems. I laugh when I hear this
argument about salaries and allowances of lawmakers, governors and the
rest. I have written a poem titled, ‘Mind your minimum.’ When you start
thinking of the maximum, it puts you into trouble. If one goes to the
bank and withdraws N20,000, a thief who saw one in the bank withdrawing
that money might not risk following one knowing that it is small money.
But if one withdraws N200,000 they will follow that person because it is
huge money.