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Wednesday, April 11, 2018

WHY WOMEN NAG IN RELATIONSHIPS RESPONDENTS

Many males assume that women have inclination for nagging if they want something done for them, an attitude that annoys or irritates the targeted person.

Some women in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) have given reasons why many of them nag in relationships than their male counterparts.

Many males assume that women have inclination for nagging if they want something done for them, an attitude that annoys or irritates the targeted person.

However, some women, who spoke with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in separate interviews on Sunday, said that women were only sensitive, responsive and vocal by nature.

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They gave reasons such as ineffective communication, lack of understanding, and insensitive attitude of their partners, among other factors, as some of the causes of their overt and confrontational attitude.

Mrs Gloria Agbo, a media practitioner said: ”The society has stereotyped women and labelled them as the ones who nag more, when there are men that have treated their partners so rash that it makes them timid, vulnerable or even aggressive.’’

According to her, a woman nags when she is being ignored or deprived of her rights.

“ When she expects you to do what is your duty in a relationship, and you don’t do it, despite repeated requests, it will definitely makes her nag.

“ However, I also use nagging to seek attention whenever I feel neglected or ignored, because every woman needs attention from her man,”she added.

Miss Halima Sarki, a civil servant said some women nag when they don’t get what they want despite several requests, which always elicits emotions like anger, frustration and the tendency to whine.

“ I nag when I repeatedly bring up the same issue severally in order to get an action done but do not get the response I want, which gets me angry and frustrated.

“Some women prefer things done their way, without considering the opinion of the other parties involved, so nagging is a tactic for them until they get their way.’’

Esther Adeosun, a retired health worker said women nag more when there is lack of understanding and ineffective response to the action being communicated.

“ When there is communication breach and lack of understanding definitely the expected action would not occur, which in most cases tend to make a woman nag, particularly when it has to do with assisting in house chores.

“ I used to nag when my children don’t do the house chores they are assigned to, expecting me to remind them daily, which gets me angry,’’ she said.

Adeosun, therefore, stressed the need for good communication strategy, team work, mutual respect and understanding to avoid issues that would necessitate nagging.

Meanwhile, Mr Fidelis Yamai, a psychologist, said nagging could lead to a breakdown in relationship, cause a lot of fight or emotional and health problems.

“ It is detrimental to the health of the persons involved.

“ Both parties may begin to disdain for each other, question the relationship and make them wary of seeing each other.

“ Instead of being happy and looking forward to spending time together, they begin to avoid each other,” Yamai said.

HOW TO GET OVER CHEATING AND STAY WITH YOUR PARTNER

Everybody deserves a second chance. Read these tips if you want to repair your relationship with a cheating partner.

· You need to make a decision

When someone cheats on you, you need to make that is best for you. Think carefully before you make the final verdict especially when children are involved. The situation affects them too. There is a long road ahead if you decide to repair your relationship or break up.

· Don’t blame yourself

Don’t blame yourself, because a relationship has two people involved, not just you. It can only work when the parties involved are committed, dedicated, trustworthy, supportive and ready to compromise.

Everybody makes mistakes. Maybe you might be caught up in the work that you forgot to spend time with your family. They should have communicated to you instead of hurting you so badly.

· Talk to your partner

Have a face-to-face discussion with your partner and tell them exactly how you feel. Try to calm down and let them tell you how they feel as well if you truly want to understand how to get over someone cheating on you.

Communication with your partner is essential after they cheat on you, whether you stay with them or not. They need to know how their actions affected you, and you need closure with what happened.

· Don’t rush it

If you want to repair your relationship, it will take time for your heart to heal. Staying under the same roof, sharing things or eating on the same dining table wouldn’t change how you’re feeling right now.

It can take months and months of healing before you start to feel better. So, don’t rush it, just all you have lived to love them unconditionally, you also need to go through the process at your own pace.

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· Don’t necessarily listen to your family and friends

Obviously, your family and close friends don’t want to see you hurt, so they will try to cheer you up and hook you up with other people which isn’t a bad idea.

Plus, if you choose to stay with your partner instead of breaking up, you’ll probably hear an earful from your friends.

It’s not their life, it’s yours. Listen to what they have to say, but, eventually, you’re the one that will make the decision, not them. For more visit: nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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8 EARLY SIGNS OF A BAD BOYFRIEND

Use these 8 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to find out if your guy’s just not into you anymore!.

When you first met him, he treated you like the real queen you are. He loved you, cared for you and pampered you.

But as the days turn into months, he seems more distant, or worse, he doesn’t have time for you anymore.

Use these 8 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to find out if your guy’s just not into you anymore!.

He takes time

He doesn’t make you his priority. He is not eager to pick your calls and hang out with you. He does things at his own convenience even when he’s not busy.

· He takes you for granted

He doesn’t appreciate the sacrifices you do for him. No appreciation for the little gestures you do for him. He never reciprocates anything you do.

· No time for you

He is always in a rush to hang up when you call him. He doesn’t have time for you, but always has time for his friends and other activities. He is always on social media but he doesn’t even send you a message.

He makes plans with you and cancels them often. And he always has a convincing excuse no matter what accusation you make.

· All he wants to do is make out

Every time both of you meet, all he wants to do is make out. He gets annoyed if you just want to talk or hang out doing something else.

· He’s emotionally closed off

An early sign of a bad boyfriend is that he doesn’t want to talk about the way forward pertaining to your relationship. He says he likes living in the present, but still makes future plans about everything else but the relationship.

· He has a lot of secrets

He only informs you about the trivial things in his life and with that he doesn’t even ask for your opinion. Although you dated him for years, you don’t even know his favorite things.

· He’s controlling and manipulative

Although he is not committed to the relationship, he doesn’t want to see you with other men. He gets very jealous when you are laughing and having a general conversation with men whether your colleagues, family or classmates.

He always tries to advise you on how you should lead your life. And as helpful as he seems, somehow you feel very stifled and suffocated in the relationship.

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· He’s in touch with his ex

He always compares you to his ex-girlfriend and sought for her opinions in matters relating to your relationship or his personal life. He finds time to meet his ex and surprisingly, he doesn’t seem enthusiastic about you joining them each time he meets his ex. They’re just friends, right? For more visit: nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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6 SIMPLE WAYS TO LIVE IN HARMONY WITH A PARTNER WHO HAS ANGER ISSUES

If you’re with someone with a temper, here’s how you can deal with it.

If your partner comes home upset, get active somehow. Once you noticed that your partner is angry, get them busy.

Give them a task they love and also involves brainstorming to keep them calm. Try this the next time you know your partner is upset about something, but not at their breaking point.

· If they start yelling, walk away

Sometimes you just have to walk away for some minutes, days or months to save your relationship.

When your partner starts screaming at you for something that has absolutely nothing to do with you, simply walk out the door.

Leave them alone in the room to yell at the walls and pretty soon they’ll start feeling rather stupid to be acting so childish. More than likely, when you arrive back, they will apologize for behaving the way they did.

· Partner mad? Punch a bag

Let’s be real, sometimes it feels good to hit something, as long as you don’t hurt anyone or anything. If your partner causes a mess whenever they are angry, buy them a punching bag and make it readily available when their mood switches.

Punching bags are actually pretty hard to hit, and not only will they get a workout, but they will also relieve a ton of stress.

· Laugh

A good laugh heals a lot of hurts. When you partner says screaming, think about something really funny and laugh out loud. They will stop yelling and look at you confused. If you have any comedy skit on your phone, watch at that moment and ignore them.

· Record them

When they go all ‘gaga’ just record them secretly and share the footage with them when they are calmed and relaxed. Or you can replay their behavior in all its glory for them, so they can see just how ridiculous they’re being. Next time, they probably will think twice about all the F-bombs they say, or maybe they will be so embarrassed that they won’t even raise their voice.

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· Start dancing

When they want to act out, you too should put on a performance. If they are screaming, or stomping, or slamming kitchen cabinets, put your favorite song on replay and dance till you can’t stand on your feet again. For more visit: nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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3 THINGS TO NEVER DO IF YOU CATCH A PARTNER CHEATING

How not to behave when you discover your partner's unfaithfulness.

Unfaithful partners get discovered every now and then, but what next after that earth-shattering discovery? What are you supposed to do, and what are you not supposed to?

The chances of catching a cheating girlfriend or a cheating boyfriend are always there and when one does discover a cheating partner, they could either choose to end the relationship or continue with it.

Whatever the case though, these are things to never do when you catch your partner having an affair.

Below we list three of them:

1. Violence

Being cheated on is not grounds for battering your partner. The law will take its full course and you’d have lost on two sides - your partner, and your freedom.

You could argue that losing a shameless, cheating partner is not really a loss but still, the point stands.

It is enough heartbreak that your partner did not turn out to be deserving of your trust and affection as you thought they were. Don’t lose your freedom because of them. Domestic violence is never acceptable and resorting to that will leave you full of nothing but regret.

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2. Leak Nudes

Revenge porn or revenge pornography is the distribution of sexually explicit images or video of individuals without their consent and this is what you’d be guilty of if you decide, in your indignation, to share that picture of your partner online.

3. Making a public scene

Not because the cheating person deserves any pity of covering-up, reallly. You'd be doing this for yourself.

Causing a public scene either by fighting or screaming or something else will be embarrassing for you and you do not need that.

It is better to walk away from that scene of discovery and plot your next move without drawing the attention of a crowd.

You can noiselessly treat his or her fuck up. And that's the advisable, classy way to go about it. For more visit: nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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Thursday, April 5, 2018

AT LEAST 50 PEOPLE WERE FEARED DEAD DURING A POLITICAL RALLY AT ASO KORO FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY ABUJA BETWEEN PDP AND APC

At least 50 people were feared dead during a Political Rally at Aso Koro Abuja between PDP and APC

According to the News men, The APC Members came in numbers and just started shooting sporadically into the air with their guns; and there was pandemonium as people started fleeing for their lives,” a resident said. “They held sway for almost an hour during which they killed over 50 people, burning houses, food stuff and carted away domestic animals. Presently, we are hiding somewhere in a nearby village at Nassarawa State,’’ the resident stated.

Another resident said: “They were on the rampage to steal Money, food Stuffs and medical supplies. Even last two days, they raided a nearby town, and many others. There is tension everywhere and people have started fleeing.’’ Confirming the attack, the Chairman of Aso Okoro Local Government Council, Federal Capital Territory Abuja Damilare Muhammad, said the attack lasted for about an hour on Tuesday April 4, 2018.

Meanwhile, The attack came days after about 50 persons were killed in a similar attack beside Aso Rock house during Muslim Morning prayer.

Sources said, scores of fighters stormed A nearby Town, a few kilometers from Aso Rock Villa Federal Capital Abuja.

The chairman who could not give the casualty figures however said that the insurgents burnt many houses and looted foodstuff.
“They looted foodstuff, killed livestock and burnt the village completely, though for now I am yet to ascertain the number of those killed.

The PDP General Secretary Barrister Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye is yet to react to the attack during the time of filing this report.
Confirming the attack, a member of the House of Representatives,Barrister Abdulahi Olowa (APC), said: ‘’President Muhammadu Buhari is being fed with false information on a capability of APC ruling Nigerian Government as they still carry out deadly strikes on PDP.

‘’The attacked at Nearby village in Nassarawa State last 2weeks and the recent attacks indicate that the group is still able to carry out major attacks on PDP any where they are having Political Rally and has not been defeated despite the successes achieved by Nigerian Police Men and Members of State Security Services.

The head of the election commission said last week he could not guarantee a free and fair voting 2019, citing interference from politicians and threats of violence against his colleagues. One election commissioner has quit and fled the country.

Anti-riot police were patrolling in NassaRawa and Aso Rock Villa Abuja, two volatile Nigerian slums. Nearly 50 people have been killed by Area Boys since 2015 to 2018

In a statement issued by the U.S. embassy, foreign missions called for calm from all sides but acknowledged that the campaign had been damaging to regional stability.

"Following this campaign, there must be immediate, sustained, open and transparent dialogue involving all Nigerians to resolve the deep divisions that the electoral process has exacerbated," it said.

Speaking on the eve of the 2017 Presidential Election by APC Members , Buhari assured his countrymen and Nigeria allies that order would be restored.

"I tell all our international partners that we will get through this," he said. "We cannot remain in a perpetual state of politicking."

Mr. Damilare, who spoke with Nigerian Top Secret Blogger on telephone on Thursday, said while the military continued to make claims of ‘decimating’ the Terrorist , the situation in Aso Rock Villa had been “grossly under-reported” in a series of security reports filed by the military to Mr. Buhari. “The truth remains that the group is still very active in our areas.’’

According to the lawmaker, no week or day passes without “one ugly incident taking place in the border communities. ‘’We want Mr. President to match words with actions because the terrorist are truly killing more people than he is even aware of, particularly in Aso Koro and Nassarawa State.

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Sunday, April 1, 2018

HAUSA AND YORUBA YOUTH CLASH IN OJOTA LAGOS

Hausa and Yoruba youths at Ojota, Lagos allegedly clashed - There are reports that several persons may have lost their lives in the violent clash - The fight allegedly broke out after a Hausa youth reportedly beat up his Yoruba counterpart over a misunderstanding A violent clash between Hausa youths and Yoruba youths at Gida Panli, Kotomola in Ojota, New Garage, Lagos state has reportedly led to the death of several persons, while many others allegedly sustain different kinds of injuries. Punch reports that the fight started on Thursday, March 25, after a Hausa youth reportedly beat up his Yoruba counterpart over a misunderstanding.

The fight reportedly escalated Friday morning after some area boys stormed the Hausa settlement to avenged the Yoruba youth who was beaten. Commercial activities were reportedly grounded in the area and motorcycles destroyed by the two warring parties. A commercial driver in the area, Wale Ajayi, who spoke to the press said: “There was a misunderstanding yesterday (Thursday) between a Yoruba and Hausa youth. The Hausa guy reported him to some area boys in the area and they settled the issue. “Afterwards, he went to attack the Yoruba man and beat him up. That made the area boys to be angry. They attacked the Hausa man and the clash started. Traders had to vacate the area and many Hausa people had been chased away Security operatives have been drafted to the area to restore normalcy and the Lagos state Police Public Relations Officer, SP Chike Oti, confirmed the clash to the press.

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· You need to make a decision

· Don’t blame yourself

· Talk to your partner

· Don’t rush it

· Don’t necessarily listen to your family and friends

When you first met him, he treated you like the real queen you are. He loved you, cared for you and pampered you.

He takes time

· He takes you for granted

· No time for you

· All he wants to do is make out

· He’s emotionally closed off

· He has a lot of secrets

· He’s controlling and manipulative

· He’s in touch with his ex

Read also SEX OR LOVE MAKING

Unfaithful partners get discovered every now and then, but what next after that earth-shattering discovery? What are you supposed to do, and what are you not supposed to?

1. Violence

2. Leak Nudes

3. Making a public scene

Thursday, April 5, 2018

Sunday, April 1, 2018