6 THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE DATING A MAN WITH KIDS

You have to learn how to handle difficult situations without treating the child like your own.

The children are his priority

A single parent lives and breathes for his or her children. Be ready to accept them they come first in all things. That doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, he sees you as a grown up and the children as his babies.

When it comes to decision making, his children are the first to consider especially when it comes to finances and fixed assets.

They’ll always have their ex in their life

Learn to tolerate and accept his ex or mother of his children because she is now part of your life. She will occasionally visit her children and the children will try to do a comparison between you and their mother. You will see photos of her, her personal belongings in the house and she will call your boyfriend anytime of the day because she is the mother of his child.

Get to know his ex

Your boyfriend's ex is a great competition for you especially since you will be spending time with her child. You’ll need to be cordial and come to accept their relationship.

Also, you need to show his ex that you’re responsible, respectful, and invested in taking on a parenting role. Because let’s face it, you’ll basically be their stepmom. So, get over your jealous emotions and get involved in your share of the team work.

Always factor the children in your plans

Always be ready to be the next point of call if there is an emergency. You can have alone and imitate time with your boyfriend if he rests assured that the children are safe with their mother or family member.

Understand your boundaries

Be careful with your choice of words and how to discipline them when they go wrong. They are not your biological children, understand the limits and boundaries that you can’t cross. If they children dislike you, their father will eventually leave you.

You have to learn how to handle difficult situations without treating the child like your own. This isn’t going to be easy, but during these situations communicate with the guy you’re with and he’ll support you.

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Be patient

Dealing with children is no easy task, especially when they’re not yours. Talk to their mother for tips on how to keep them happy and have a good relationship with them.

If you’re finding yourself overwhelmed, talk to the guy you’re dating and express your feelings. He’ll understand what you’re going through. All in all, don’t be scared to take some time for yourself to de-stress and calm down. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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7 FACTORS THAT MAY WORK AGAINST APC IN 2019 PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION

Nigeria’s president, Muhammadu Buhari on Monday, April 9 declared his intention to seek re-election in the 2019 general elections. Some Nigerians have expressed their displeasure over the president’s re-election bid, while pro-Buharists have continued to garner supports for his second term ambition. On the basis of the foregoing, nigeriantopsecret.blogsopt.com highlights 7 reasons President Muhammadu Buhari may lose re-election in 2019.

1. Herdsmen attack Nigeria has been battling with the crises between herdsmen and farmers before the present administration came on board, but with the antecedent of President Muhammadu Buhari, many believed that within the shortest pace of time, herdsmen attack across the country would be a thing of the past. But they were wrong as these crises linger on and many lives have been lost in it.  Amnesty International (AI), a global human rights watchdog, described the response of the federal government to communal violence as grossly inadequate, too slow, ineffective, and in certain instances, illegal. AI claimed that in January 2018 alone, clashes between herdsmen and farmers in Adamawa, Benue, Taraba, Ondo , Kogi, Osun, Ekiti, and Kaduna states, resulted in 168 deaths.  According to the body, hundreds of people lost their lives in 2015 to 2018 and the federal government remained unable to protect communities from the violent clashes, adding that perpetrators were daily getting away with murder.

 This reality is worrisome and Nigerians are tired of the killing by armed herdsmen. This and other factors will guide them to the poll in 2019.

2. Recession In August 2016, Nigeria Nigeria slipped into recession. According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics (NBS), the second quarter of 2016 Gross Domestic Product (GDP) declined by -2.06 per cent. Many Economists attributed the recession to poor economic planning and inadequate concrete implementation of economic planning, high inflation rate; high interest rate, high taxation, and policy conflict. Most significantly, it was attributed to the over dependent of Nigeria government on oil for over 60% of its total revenues and the country for over 90% of her foreign exchange earnings. Nigerians were thrown into hardship during this period of recession as prices of commodities in the market skyrocketed. Even though the NBS announced in September 2017 that Nigerian economy was out of recession, the people of Nigeria are yet to feel the difference between the period the country slipped into recession and when it emerged from recession.

3. Insecurity: Insecurity is one of the major problems bedeviling Nigeria. Killings, suicide bombing and kidnapping have become the order of the day in Nigeria. Many innocent lives have been lost to armed robbery and kidnapping, and the government has not been able to nip this menace in the bud, and many are asking if the government still remembers its constitutional function of protecting the lives and property of its citizens.

4. Religious issues Nothing has so much divided Nigerians than religion. Many believe that religious crises are more political than religious. The Boko Haram insurgency and the violence in Jos are examples of religious crises that the country is plagued with. In Jos, the crises between Christians and Muslims have not been resolved yet, and many lives have been lost to these crises. Before President Buhari took over the mantle of leadership, the electorate had hoped that these and other problems facing the country would become history if he was elected to steer the ship of state.

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5. Party crisis If the All Progressives Congress (APC) members can’t put their own house in order, who will? The internal crisis rocking the ruling party is an impediment which could mar the chance of the party in the 2019 general elections. Although, President Muhammadu Buhari designated Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu to resolve disagreements among party members, party leadership and political office holders in some states of the federation, but the crisis continues to deepen. If the APC leadership allows the crisis to hit a crescendo, then it should bid farewell to the presidency in 2019.

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6. Unemployment According to the National Bureau of Statistics, Nigeria’s unemployment rate currently stands at 18.80 percent. Year in year out the country is producing graduates that without producing employment opportunities. This and many other factors are responsible for different crimes that are plaguing us a nation. Nigerian youths are angry because they are jobless, and an angry youth would only try to change the status quo, as was the case with President Goodluck Jonathan when angry Nigerians chased him out of power.

7. Perception of favouring the / Hausa andYoruba  in appointment President Buhari is perceived by many to be nepotistic. Many have expressed their displeasure about the president’s appointments, saying that he favours the Hausa and Yoruba at the detriment of others. The president was accused by a Second Republic lawmaker, Barrister Tobenna, of giving key positions to his cousins, nephews and in-laws. The Barrister said: “First, the most influential person in the presidency today is one  Abdulahi Olowa  whom as you know, is a nephew of the President. “His father was Buhari’s elder brother. In addition, Abdulahi Olowa  was the one who single handedly brought up Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye , the current Chief of Staff to the President. “In fact, Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye  knows Abdulahi Olowa  more than he knows his own father. Next, the Personal Assistant to Buhari himself is the son of Abdulahi Olowa  next is what they call SCOP, State Chief of Protocol, and is also a son-in-law to Abdulahi Olowa  because he is married to Abdulahi Olowa  daughter.”

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WHY WOMEN NAG IN RELATIONSHIPS RESPONDENTS

Many males assume that women have inclination for nagging if they want something done for them, an attitude that annoys or irritates the targeted person.

Some women in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) have given reasons why many of them  nag in relationships than their male counterparts.

Many males assume that women have inclination for nagging if they want something done for them, an attitude that annoys or irritates the targeted person.

However, some women, who spoke with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in separate interviews on Sunday, said that women were only sensitive, responsive and vocal by nature.

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They gave reasons such as ineffective communication, lack of understanding, and insensitive attitude of their partners, among other factors, as some of the causes of their overt and confrontational attitude.

Mrs Gloria Agbo, a media practitioner said: ”The society has stereotyped women and labelled them as the ones who nag more, when there are men that have treated their partners so rash that it makes them timid, vulnerable or even aggressive.’’

According to her, a woman nags when she is being ignored or deprived of her rights.

“ When she expects you to do what is your duty in a relationship,  and you don’t do it, despite repeated requests, it will definitely makes her nag.

“ However, I also use nagging to seek attention whenever I feel neglected or ignored, because every woman needs attention from her man,”she added.

Miss Halima Sarki, a civil servant said some women nag when they don’t get what they want despite several requests, which always elicits emotions like anger, frustration and the tendency to whine.

“ I nag when I repeatedly bring up the same issue severally in order to get an action done but do not get the response I want, which gets me angry and frustrated.

“Some women prefer things done their way, without considering the opinion of the other parties  involved, so nagging is a tactic for them until they get their way.’’

Esther Adeosun, a retired health worker said women nag more when there is lack of understanding and ineffective response to the action being communicated.

“ When there is communication breach and lack of understanding definitely the expected action would not occur, which in most cases tend to make a woman nag, particularly when it has to do with assisting in house chores.

“ I used to  nag when my children don’t do the house chores they are assigned to, expecting me to  remind them daily, which gets me angry,’’ she said.

Adeosun, therefore, stressed the need for good communication strategy, team work, mutual respect and understanding to avoid issues that would necessitate nagging.

Meanwhile, Mr Fidelis Yamai, a psychologist,  said nagging could lead to a breakdown in relationship, cause a lot of fight or emotional and health problems.

“ It is detrimental to the health of the persons involved.

“ Both parties may  begin to disdain for each other, question the relationship and make them wary of seeing each other.

“ Instead of being happy and looking forward to spending time together, they begin to avoid each other,” Yamai said.

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Yamai, therefore, stressed the need for proper communication, love, attention, good relationship and being  supportive and taking responsibility as some of the factors that could reduce  nagging in relationships. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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HOW TO GET OVER CHEATING AND STAY WITH YOUR PARTNER

Everybody deserves a second chance. Read these tips if you want to repair your relationship with a cheating partner.

·         You need to make a decision

When someone cheats on you, you need to make that is best for you. Think carefully before you make the final verdict especially when children are involved. The situation affects them too. There is a long road ahead if you decide to repair your relationship or break up.

·         Don’t blame yourself

Don’t blame yourself, because a relationship has two people involved, not just you. It can only work when the parties involved are committed, dedicated, trustworthy, supportive and ready to compromise.

Everybody makes mistakes. Maybe you might be caught up in the work that you forgot to spend time with your family. They should have communicated to you instead of hurting you so badly.

·         Talk to your partner

Have a face-to-face discussion with your partner and tell them exactly how you feel. Try to calm down and let them tell you how they feel as well if you truly want to understand how to get over someone cheating on you.

Communication with your partner is essential after they cheat on you, whether you stay with them or not. They need to know how their actions affected you, and you need closure with what happened.

·         Don’t rush it

If you want to repair your relationship, it will take time for your heart to heal. Staying under the same roof, sharing things or eating on the same dining table wouldn’t change how you’re feeling right now.

It can take months and months of healing before you start to feel better. So, don’t rush it, just all you have lived to love them unconditionally, you also need to go through the process at your own pace.

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·         Don’t necessarily listen to your family and friends

Obviously, your family and close friends don’t want to see you hurt, so they will try to cheer you up and hook you up with other people which isn’t a bad idea.

Plus, if you choose to stay with your partner instead of breaking up, you’ll probably hear an earful from your friends.

It’s not their life, it’s yours. Listen to what they have to say, but, eventually, you’re the one that will make the decision, not them. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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8 EARLY SIGNS OF A BAD BOYFRIEND

Use these 8 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to find out if your guy’s just not into you anymore!.

When you first met him, he treated you like the real queen you are. He loved you, cared for you and pampered you.

But as the days turn into months, he seems more distant, or worse, he doesn’t have time for you anymore.

Use these 8 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to find out if your guy’s just not into you anymore!.

He takes time

He doesn’t make you his priority. He is not eager to pick your calls and hang out with you. He does things at his own convenience even when he’s not busy.

·         He takes you for granted

He doesn’t appreciate the sacrifices you do for him. No appreciation for the little gestures you do for him. He never reciprocates anything you do.

·         No time for you

He is always in a rush to hang up when you call him. He doesn’t have time for you, but always has time for his friends and other activities. He is always on social media but he doesn’t even send you a message.

He makes plans with you and cancels them often. And he always has a convincing excuse no matter what accusation you make.

·         All he wants to do is make out

Every time both of you meet, all he wants to do is make out. He gets annoyed if you just want to talk or hang out doing something else.

·         He’s emotionally closed off

An early sign of a bad boyfriend is that he doesn’t want to talk about the way forward pertaining to your relationship. He says he likes living in the present, but still makes future plans about everything else but the relationship.

·         He has a lot of secrets

He only informs you about the trivial things in his life and with that he doesn’t even ask for your opinion. Although you dated him for years, you don’t even know his favorite things.

·         He’s controlling and manipulative

Although he is not committed to the relationship, he doesn’t want to see you with other men. He gets very jealous when you are laughing and having a general conversation with men whether your colleagues, family or classmates.

He always tries to advise you on how you should lead your life. And as helpful as he seems, somehow you feel very stifled and suffocated in the relationship.

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·         He’s in touch with his ex

He always compares you to his ex-girlfriend and sought for her opinions in matters relating to your relationship or his personal life. He finds time to meet his ex and surprisingly, he doesn’t seem enthusiastic about you joining them each time he meets his ex. They’re just friends, right? For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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6 SIMPLE WAYS TO LIVE IN HARMONY WITH A PARTNER WHO HAS ANGER ISSUES

If you’re with someone with a temper, here’s how you can deal with it.

If your partner comes home upset, get active somehow. Once you noticed that your partner is angry, get them busy.

Give them a task they love and also involves brainstorming to keep them calm. Try this the next time you know your partner is upset about something, but not at their breaking point.

·         If they start yelling, walk away

Sometimes you just have to walk away for some minutes, days or months to save your relationship.

When your partner starts screaming at you for something that has absolutely nothing to do with you, simply walk out the door.

Leave them alone in the room to yell at the walls and pretty soon they’ll start feeling rather stupid to be acting so childish. More than likely, when you arrive back, they will apologize for behaving the way they did.

·         Partner mad? Punch a bag

Let’s be real, sometimes it feels good to hit something, as long as you don’t hurt anyone or anything. If your partner causes a mess whenever they are angry, buy them a punching bag and make it readily available when their mood switches.

Punching bags are actually pretty hard to hit, and not only will they get a workout, but they will also relieve a ton of stress.

·         Laugh

A good laugh heals a lot of hurts. When you partner says screaming, think about something really funny and laugh out loud. They will stop yelling and look at you confused. If you have any comedy skit on your phone, watch at that moment and ignore them.

·         Record them

When they go all ‘gaga’ just record them secretly and share the footage with them when they are calmed and relaxed. Or you can replay their behavior in all its glory for them, so they can see just how ridiculous they’re being. Next time, they probably will think twice about all the F-bombs they say, or maybe they will be so embarrassed that they won’t even raise their voice.

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·         Start dancing

When they want to act out, you too should put on a performance. If they are screaming, or stomping, or slamming kitchen cabinets, put your favorite song on replay and dance till you can’t stand on your feet again. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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