WHAT YOU SHOULDN'T SAY TO YOUR MAN DURING SEX

All the things better left unsaid when you're both getting it on..

It is hard to imagine a man that does not like a woman that is vocal in bed.

And the things guys want to hear during sex range from pleasurable moans, how well they are doing and dirty talk [for those that find such things sexy.]

The list actually stretches further but this article aims to focus on something else – what are the things women should not say during sex?

In a previous article, we explained the things that men should not say during sex because it turns women off; and now we list the six things women should avoid saying during sex because they could ruin the moment.

1. Do you love me?

As you might have heard, sex is more physical for men and emotional for women. And while clarifying issues of the heart is not a bad thing, many men would rather have you discuss it before or after sex… not during.

2. What are we now?

This is another example of how women quickly merge sex and emotions [mind you, no one is saying it’s a bad thing.]

Women usually reserve this question till after sex, but for some reason, some babes pop it during the act. [SMH]

Let’s assume you didn’t know men find it unsexy. Now you do. So, stop it!

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3. What are you trying to do?

This is after you have probably been kissing and touching his body and letting him feel yours for about 10 or 15 minutes.

Please, ladies, stop asking this question because, of course, you know he’s not trying to undress you for academic or medical purposes!

So why ruin the moment with this kinda question???

4. Do you think I’m overweight?

Weight is one sensitive issue that many women are insecure about and this, of course, is what makes them ask the question.

But, hey, aren’t y’all having sex already? Doesn’t that tell you that he has no qualms about what your body looks or feels like???

It’s better to clear this issue before you both get naked. Seriously.

Besides, there are men who love big women. When in doubt, just assume he's one of those guys and enjoy the moment.

Even if he now happens to not like your body, the best time to discuss it is not during sex. Wait till afterwards.

5. What about the money I asked for?

LOL. Think this is just plain and simple blackmail, really.

Women know men would say and grant any request during sex and they just exploit it.

Later, these same women will say men are scum.

6. Aren’t you done?

Well, now I am.

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5 SIGNS THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A SAPIOSEXUAL

A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to a person’s intellect way more than their body.

Every parent wants their daughter to date a smart man. A guy who is very knowledgeable, well-mannered and has a way around every conversation.

Are you familiar with the dating term sapiosexual or sapiosexuality? A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to a person’s intellect way more than their body.

They get turned on by wit, intelligence, and a quick mind, and they’d rather listen to you flex your verbal dexterity than watch you flex your quads at the gym.

Here are signs that you might be dating a sapiosexual.

·         Bookstore over bar

Books bring the world to our feet. His idea of a perfect date is moving from one store to another or checking online bookshop to recommend books for your date to read. You might need up narrating your favorite book instead of enjoying the moment.

·         Great conversation over sex

Not because he doesn’t love sex or a one-night stand, he always has something to talk about from feminine related issues to sports and what’s buzzing in the entertainment. He is the repository of news.

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·         Intellectual beauty over luxurious things

He doesn’t rate a person’s accomplishment by their physical assets with those hefty prices. He measures success by what they know and what invigorates them to personal greatness.

He is not looking for a smart narcissist; he makes acquaintances with people who have a zest for knowledge, learning, and discussion.

·         Quality over trends

Individual taste or preference is important. He tends to value substance over what is popular. Change is necessary but he doesn’t switch his lifestyle to meet a certain standard because you proposed.

He research takes into consideration all the possible risk involved before he finally makes a decision. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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5 SIMPLE THINGS YOU TWO CAN DO TO GROW YOUR RELATIONSHIP

What makes for a healthy romantic relationship differs from couple to couple.

For any relationship to grow strong and stay strong, you need to put in some work.

Although love is the foundation of any happy romantic relationship, love is not enough. In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties have to be willing to work on it. Below you’ll find 5 ways to keep your relationship strong.

1.Take an interest in what interests them

My husband loves to golf and watch all sports on television. I had no interest in sports. Eventually, I realized how much he did for me and with me. One day I decided to take golfing lessons and watch sports with him.

2. Learn what pleases your partner sexually

 Make it clear that his pleasure is your pleasure, and you want to discover everything about what turns him on. He’ll be happy to have you experiment with him.

3. Practice gratitude

Don’t take your partner for granted. Keep a journal of the loving deeds your partner does. Practice gratitude together while riding in the car or taking a walk. One person states what they are grateful for and the other follows. Continue taking turns until you’ve exhausted every possibility. Your relationship will thrive.

Being in a relationship requires connectedness and aloneness. It’s a great feeling when you can maintain your freedom and independence while also remaining deeply connected to your partner.

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5. Get a Mentor

This is, and has been, my first move when I hit a challenge in my life, that feels greater than my capacity to overcome it. Find the world’s best expert in that particular area, and read their books, have a number of 1-on-1 sessions with them, and attend all of their workshops etc. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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5 THINGS HAPPY COUPLES SHOULD DO TOGETHER ONCE EVERY WEE

Keep the love alive everyday.

What makes a successful marriage or relationship? How do you keep the bond from breaking?

Every happy relationship is just made up of a series of little things. Here are some things you can do today to reinforce your connection.

·         Go to bed at the same time

Happy couples share their day right up to and including bedtime. If one wants to wait up to watch the end of a movie, then the other waits with them. Going to bed at different times is only a small step away from going to bed in separate beds.

·         Have a date night

Some couple thinks that date night is for bachelors who are dating and preparing to get married. In fact, going out on dates after marriage is very important if you want to keep things going in your relationship.

Couples who spend time together have a quality relationship and lower divorce rates than those who are always caught up in their work.

·         Cook favorite meals together

As the sayings go, couples who cook together stay together. Trust, love, constant communication, quality of sex and money are the few things that determine the success of every relationship.

But did you know that how you cook  that's right, cook  could keep you together or tear you apart? Make time for your spouse and spend more time together dining at home.

·         Surprise each other with gifts

It’s true. The little things you do for someone can have a great impact on your relationship. Keep the love alive and let your spouse feel special every day with your gifts and cute messages.

It doesn’t necessarily have to be an expensive gift but some very thoughtful.

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·         Exercise together

Couples are busily chasing money that they forget to keep in shape. Early Saturday morning, you can jog together and tidy up your home together. Share house chores, finish in time and get busy in bed. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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HOW SOON WOULD YOU SAY 'I LOVE YOU'? CHECK OUT THESE 5 WAYS MEN SAY I LOVE YOU WITHOUT A WORD

Always surprise her

To make your girlfriend feel loved and special, always surprise every now and then.

One of the best ways to let someone know you love them is by surprising them every now and then. It shows your lover that you think of them even when they aren’t around.

Are you going shopping? See if you find something your lover will like or buy a box of chocolates or even a tee shirt.

Pay attention to little details

What turns you partner on? Small gestures like breakfast in bed, text them at work, remove her shoes when she comes home and massage her feet, lay the bed and do things to please her. Show her how much you love her and adore her.

It keeps the sparkle in your relationship and strengthens your relationship.

Public display of affection

Let the world know how much you appreciate and love her for choosing you as her partner. Share your lovey-dovey photos on social media with heartwarming captions.

It’s a little romantic gesture that shows your partner that you’re proud to show them off as your lover to the rest of the world.

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Be the pillar to lean on

Support your girlfriend through thick and thin. Love isn’t always about affection and lovemaking. Afford her your unflinching support without her even asking.

Help her become a better person by correcting her flaws, and let your partner see that you’ll always be there for them no matter what.

Listen to her

Some women are talkative, always talking about everything but nothing. Just listen to her to sieve out the good information and act upon it.

Respect your opinion, views and seek for her advice especially in matters concerning your relationship, never ever rubbish her off even if her suggestions don't make sense. Listening to her makes her happy and feel loved. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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Zenith Bank
Account Number: 2111063280
Account name: Gabriel Obinna Igboke

Access Bank
Account Number : 0041129421
Account Name: Gabriel Obinna Igboke

Furthermore, you can as well contact us for Advertisement, Online Marketing and Social Media Training and Blogging,
Website Designing, etc.

Thanks & Regards,

Gabriel Obinna
E-Business Solutions Manager /MD
OBINO TECHNOLOGIES LIMITED

Tel: +2348178844746, 038357482
Email: obinotech@yahoo.com / obinotech@gmail.com
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6 THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE DATING A MAN WITH KIDS

You have to learn how to handle difficult situations without treating the child like your own.

The children are his priority

A single parent lives and breathes for his or her children. Be ready to accept them they come first in all things. That doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, he sees you as a grown up and the children as his babies.

When it comes to decision making, his children are the first to consider especially when it comes to finances and fixed assets.

They’ll always have their ex in their life

Learn to tolerate and accept his ex or mother of his children because she is now part of your life. She will occasionally visit her children and the children will try to do a comparison between you and their mother. You will see photos of her, her personal belongings in the house and she will call your boyfriend anytime of the day because she is the mother of his child.

Get to know his ex

Your boyfriend's ex is a great competition for you especially since you will be spending time with her child. You’ll need to be cordial and come to accept their relationship.

Also, you need to show his ex that you’re responsible, respectful, and invested in taking on a parenting role. Because let’s face it, you’ll basically be their stepmom. So, get over your jealous emotions and get involved in your share of the team work.

Always factor the children in your plans

Always be ready to be the next point of call if there is an emergency. You can have alone and imitate time with your boyfriend if he rests assured that the children are safe with their mother or family member.

Understand your boundaries

Be careful with your choice of words and how to discipline them when they go wrong. They are not your biological children, understand the limits and boundaries that you can’t cross. If they children dislike you, their father will eventually leave you.

You have to learn how to handle difficult situations without treating the child like your own. This isn’t going to be easy, but during these situations communicate with the guy you’re with and he’ll support you.

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Be patient

Dealing with children is no easy task, especially when they’re not yours. Talk to their mother for tips on how to keep them happy and have a good relationship with them.

If you’re finding yourself overwhelmed, talk to the guy you’re dating and express your feelings. He’ll understand what you’re going through. All in all, don’t be scared to take some time for yourself to de-stress and calm down. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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Website Designing, etc.

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E-Business Solutions Manager /MD
OBINO TECHNOLOGIES LIMITED
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7 FACTORS THAT MAY WORK AGAINST APC IN 2019 PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION

Nigeria’s president, Muhammadu Buhari on Monday, April 9 declared his intention to seek re-election in the 2019 general elections. Some Nigerians have expressed their displeasure over the president’s re-election bid, while pro-Buharists have continued to garner supports for his second term ambition. On the basis of the foregoing, nigeriantopsecret.blogsopt.com highlights 7 reasons President Muhammadu Buhari may lose re-election in 2019.

1. Herdsmen attack Nigeria has been battling with the crises between herdsmen and farmers before the present administration came on board, but with the antecedent of President Muhammadu Buhari, many believed that within the shortest pace of time, herdsmen attack across the country would be a thing of the past. But they were wrong as these crises linger on and many lives have been lost in it.  Amnesty International (AI), a global human rights watchdog, described the response of the federal government to communal violence as grossly inadequate, too slow, ineffective, and in certain instances, illegal. AI claimed that in January 2018 alone, clashes between herdsmen and farmers in Adamawa, Benue, Taraba, Ondo , Kogi, Osun, Ekiti, and Kaduna states, resulted in 168 deaths.  According to the body, hundreds of people lost their lives in 2015 to 2018 and the federal government remained unable to protect communities from the violent clashes, adding that perpetrators were daily getting away with murder.

 This reality is worrisome and Nigerians are tired of the killing by armed herdsmen. This and other factors will guide them to the poll in 2019.

2. Recession In August 2016, Nigeria Nigeria slipped into recession. According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics (NBS), the second quarter of 2016 Gross Domestic Product (GDP) declined by -2.06 per cent. Many Economists attributed the recession to poor economic planning and inadequate concrete implementation of economic planning, high inflation rate; high interest rate, high taxation, and policy conflict. Most significantly, it was attributed to the over dependent of Nigeria government on oil for over 60% of its total revenues and the country for over 90% of her foreign exchange earnings. Nigerians were thrown into hardship during this period of recession as prices of commodities in the market skyrocketed. Even though the NBS announced in September 2017 that Nigerian economy was out of recession, the people of Nigeria are yet to feel the difference between the period the country slipped into recession and when it emerged from recession.

3. Insecurity: Insecurity is one of the major problems bedeviling Nigeria. Killings, suicide bombing and kidnapping have become the order of the day in Nigeria. Many innocent lives have been lost to armed robbery and kidnapping, and the government has not been able to nip this menace in the bud, and many are asking if the government still remembers its constitutional function of protecting the lives and property of its citizens.

4. Religious issues Nothing has so much divided Nigerians than religion. Many believe that religious crises are more political than religious. The Boko Haram insurgency and the violence in Jos are examples of religious crises that the country is plagued with. In Jos, the crises between Christians and Muslims have not been resolved yet, and many lives have been lost to these crises. Before President Buhari took over the mantle of leadership, the electorate had hoped that these and other problems facing the country would become history if he was elected to steer the ship of state.

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5. Party crisis If the All Progressives Congress (APC) members can’t put their own house in order, who will? The internal crisis rocking the ruling party is an impediment which could mar the chance of the party in the 2019 general elections. Although, President Muhammadu Buhari designated Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu to resolve disagreements among party members, party leadership and political office holders in some states of the federation, but the crisis continues to deepen. If the APC leadership allows the crisis to hit a crescendo, then it should bid farewell to the presidency in 2019.

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6. Unemployment According to the National Bureau of Statistics, Nigeria’s unemployment rate currently stands at 18.80 percent. Year in year out the country is producing graduates that without producing employment opportunities. This and many other factors are responsible for different crimes that are plaguing us a nation. Nigerian youths are angry because they are jobless, and an angry youth would only try to change the status quo, as was the case with President Goodluck Jonathan when angry Nigerians chased him out of power.

7. Perception of favouring the / Hausa andYoruba  in appointment President Buhari is perceived by many to be nepotistic. Many have expressed their displeasure about the president’s appointments, saying that he favours the Hausa and Yoruba at the detriment of others. The president was accused by a Second Republic lawmaker, Barrister Tobenna, of giving key positions to his cousins, nephews and in-laws. The Barrister said: “First, the most influential person in the presidency today is one  Abdulahi Olowa  whom as you know, is a nephew of the President. “His father was Buhari’s elder brother. In addition, Abdulahi Olowa  was the one who single handedly brought up Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye , the current Chief of Staff to the President. “In fact, Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye  knows Abdulahi Olowa  more than he knows his own father. Next, the Personal Assistant to Buhari himself is the son of Abdulahi Olowa  next is what they call SCOP, State Chief of Protocol, and is also a son-in-law to Abdulahi Olowa  because he is married to Abdulahi Olowa  daughter.”

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