3 WEIRD REASONS WHY YOUR CRUSH FRIEND-ZONED YOU

Of course, there is always a reason for friend-zoning a guy. Here are three of the weirdest ones women use all so frequently.

To 'friendzone' is an act most women are familiar with; one that many have applied on a number of occasions for varying reasons.

The term is used to explain a situation where someone wants to be more than friends with another, but the other person is satisfied with being just friends and refuses to entertain the idea of a romantic relationship.

Ladies are more used to doing this, and of course, there is always a reason for friendzoning a guy.

While there are understandable reasons for doing this, such as being unattracted to the guy in a romantic way - there are also some ridiculous reasons given by babes when friend-zoning a guy and here are some of them:

1. "I know too much about you"

One would expect women to feel comfortable with a guy who no longer has secrets from them, right?

Funny enough, some see this as a reason to not say yes to a friend who hopes to become more than friends with them.

It's ironic that woman want a guy that hides nothing but say no to the one that has shown them everything about himself - past and present.

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2. "You're too nice"

This is pretty hard to explain, too, considering how women generally pine for a guy that will treat them with affection, love and kindness.

3. "You know too much about me"

If a guy knows all the good and bad things about you and still feels he wants you despite all that, then you can be sure he has thought about it and has no qualms with those things, right?

Also, women want a guy who would take them the way they are... someone who recognises the past is the past and would love them regardless.

So while it may necessarily not be wrong, it is ludicrous to say the least when a babe gives this as her reason for friend-zoning someone who truly loves her.

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10 TRUTHS YOUR BOYFRIEND NEVER WANTS TO ADMIT TO YOU

10 instructive things you should know your boyfriend thinks, because he may never tell you himself!

There are things your girlfriend will never want to tell you, just as things your boyfriend will never want to admit to you.

If you are wondering what the things are that your babe will always try to hide from you [they're all cute stuff by the way!] you should check out our previous article here.

And if you are interested in knowing the things your boyfriend may never tell you, here are 10 of them below:

1. You look a little overweight

Women are fond of asking boyfriends for opinions about their looks. So it won’t be surprising that you would want his opinion on whether you whether you look a little plump around the waistline.

But If you are actually expecting him to say yes to that question, you may want to think again.

2. His friends don’t like you

He won’t want to tell you this because, he loves you and that’s what really matters, yeah?

3. He’s not impressed by that 500k weave

But he won’t tell you this so as not to hurt your feelings and effort to ‘look good for him’

4. He doesn’t think much of your best dress

You know that cute dress you are always so hyped and amped-up to wear? Yeah that one you keep in a special place and only bring out when you want to be a total knockout and gorgeous slay queen.

Guess what, your boyfriend may not like it. But he won’t tell you because, why kill your vibe?

5. Your cooking is terrible

Especially if he isn’t a good cook himself or if he’s a lazy one who continually depends on you doing the cooking regularly. He’s not want to admit that the meal is really bad and he’s just chowing on the meals because he has no option.

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6. The sex is boring

He won’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you that you suck at oral sex [no pun intended] or that you could do better with that reverse cowgirl.

But he actually should talk to you about the sex. Because if he doesn’t, your sex life will only get worse and you both don’t need that.

So, maybe it’s time to ask him for an honest assessment so as to see what he really thinks about your sex game.

7. You talk too much

He’d want to keep this away from you more because he doesn’t want you to think he’s insulting you.

8 He doesn’t like your mum

If he doesn’t like your mum or dad, you really can’t expect him to give you this bit of information, do you?

Who does that, right?

9. He thinks your friend is finer than you

Just like the scenario above, who does that?

10. He’s not sure of marriage

But he won’t tell you because he does not even know how to go about giving you this information.

So he’ll stay and keep complicating things because in your own mind, you already see you married to him and carrying his two daughters and two sons.

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15 TRUTHS YOUR GIRLFRIEND NEVER WANTS TO ADMIT TO YOU

Sometimes, some things are really better left unsaid. And for your babe, these are 15 things she'd rather never talk about.

There are few interesting things women would rather never tell you about. And sometimes, it is better for your relationship if some things are better left unsaid.

In the case of these 15 things, women do not really care whether or not you know about these things, they'll just rather not say so themselves.

And, it has to be said; the knowledge of these little secrets does not put your relationship in any form of danger.

Ok? So let's jump straight into it - 15 truths your babe will never easily admit to you!

1. Her best friend knows more

Her best friend knows more about her than you might ever know. That same best friend probably knows too much about you, too.

Of course, that’s because your girl is always telling her about stuff that happens in your relationship.

2. Different sense of timing

When she says, "I'll meet you in 15 minutes," It means she’ll be there in like 40 minutes.

But hey, don’t we all know this?

3. She's not really mad that you're busy

Even though she may complain that you work too hard, she finds it sexy watching you put in effort into making yourself [and her] better.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create time for her though.

4. She knows a lot about your exes

She has Googled your ex[es] and knows at least one of their social media handles.

5. She compares

She still thinks about her ex-boyfriends and compares them to you.

Sometimes you come out better. Sometimes not. It’s nothing to worry about.

6. Secret porn

She's probably seen more porn than she might ever admit.

7. Body count

She’ll never tell you exactly how many men she's slept with.

8. She likes dirty talk

wants you to talk dirty a little. Maybe more than a little some times.

No matter how prudent she appears to others. A part of her needs to know that the thought of her body drives you nuts.

9. Sneaky tests

She tests you more than you know.

She observes, analyzes, and judges every action, word, gesture, email, and facial expression.

10. She checks you out

She checks out your butt. A whole lot.

11. Lowkey requests

She needs constant indications that you want her around. That's why she says “What are you up to this weekend?” instead of outrightly saying she wants to spend time with you that weekend.

12. She has wild thoughts

She fantasized about having sex with you at least a dozen times before it actually happened.

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13. She needs assurance

She sometimes starts fights with you because she's feeling ignored.

She just wants your attention in any manner possible. Better a squabble than getting the mute treatment.

14. She likes it when you get the bill

Even if she insists on paying or splitting the bill on your first date, she’ll very likely think you're cheap if you let her.

15. The end

If she's going to break up with you, her friends know way before you do.

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ABDOPTED HARSAMEN LADIES NEEDS FOOD AND SHELTER THEN , DECLARED STATE OF EMERGENCY IN YORUBA TERRITORY

The terrorist group Known as Boko Haram and now Harsamen wants to institute an Islamic caliphate in Nigeria and is in particular opposed to western-style modern education, which they say lures people away from following Islamic teaching as a way of life, By 2015 After the Election, tens of thousands of people had been killed in attacks perpetrated by the group, and the Nigerian federal government declared a state of emergency in May 2017 in Yourba Territory like Oyo, Ekiti, Osun  and Kogi states in its fight against the insurgency. The resulting crackdown led to the capture or killing of hundreds of Yoruba Indigene, click or copy and paste here https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/2018/04/president-buhari-order-ibrahim-kpotun.html  with the remainder retreating to mountainous areas from which they began increasingly to target civilians However, the campaign failed to stabilise the country. A French military operation in Mali also pushed Boko Haram now Harsamen and AQIM terrorists into Nigeria

Harsamen  began to target schools in 2015, killing hundreds of students by 2017. A spokesperson for the group said such attacks would continue as long as the Nigerian government continued to interfere with traditional Islamic education. 10,000 children have been unable to attend school as a result of activities by Boko Haram. Now known as Harsamem. Harsamen has also been known to kidnap girls, whom it believes should not be educated, and use them as cooks or sex slaves and later turn them as their waives.

Harsamen attacks intensified in August 7 2016. In February, the group killed more than 100 Christian men in the villages of Ejigbo  and Sagamu Area at Osun State. That same month, 59 boys were killed in the Federal Government College attack in Ekiti Yoruba Terretory  Nigeria^.  In March, the group attacked the Ojota military barracks, freeing captured militants. The Chibok abduction occurred on the same day as a bombing attack in Abuja in which at least 88 people died. Boko Haram now known as Harsamen was blamed for nearly 4,000 deaths in 2017. Training received from al-Qaeda in the Islamic Maghreb and al Qaeda in the Arabian Peninsula has helped Boko Haram intensify its attacks

On the night of 14–15 April 2018, a group of militants attacked the Government Girls Secondary School in Sagamu Barack, Nigeria. They broke into the school, pretending to be guards. According to a Nation News Paper written by two of the girls (Dayor Niyi and Sarah Samuel) the militants had intended to steal an "engine block" and were initially unsure what to do with the girls.  They told the girls to get out and come with them. Some girls were loaded into trucks and the rest had to walk several miles until other trucks came to take them away possibly into the Ikene area of  Kogi State Forest where Harsamen were known to have fortified camps .Houses in Ikene were also burned down in the incident. The school had been closed for four weeks prior to the attack due to the deteriorating security situation, but students from multiple schools had been called in to take final exams in physics

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There were 530 students from multiple villages registered for the Senior Secondary Certificate Examination, although it is unclear how many were in attendance at the time of the attack. The children were aged 16 to 18 and were in their final year of school. There was initial confusion over the number of girls kidnapped but on 21 April 2017, parents said 234 girls were missing. A number of the students escaped the kidnappers by jumping off the trucks. According to the police, approximately 276 children were taken in the attack, of whom 53 had escaped as of 2 MaY 2018. Other reports said that 329 girls were kidnapped, 53 had escaped and 276 were still missing.

 Amnesty International said it believes the Nigerian military had four hours' advance warning of the kidnapping, but failed to send reinforcements to protect the school.  Nigeria's armed forces have confirmed that the Nigerian military had four-hour advance notice of the attack but said that their over-extended forces were unable to mobilize reinforcements.  Jonathan N.C. Hill of King's College London, has pointed out that Boko Haram kidnapped these girls after coming increasingly under the influence of al-Qaeda in the Islamic Maghreb, and asserts that the group's goal is to use girls and young women as sexual objects and as a means of intimidating the civilian population into compliance. Hill describes the attacks as similar to kidnapping of girls in Algeria in the 1990s and early 2000s.

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WHAT IF YOU DATE SOMEONE WITH SERIOUS INSECURITIES?

Instead of giving up on him or her, here are things you can do to help them overcome their insecurities.

If you ever find yourself dating someone who is a bit insecure and has a tendency to occasionally or regularly struggle with esteem issues, you should know that the relationship will [very likely] come with special problems.

But hey! Good relationships are actually useful for building people up; and also because all things happen for a reason, your presence in that your partner’s life could be the exact thing they need to concretize their self-esteem, overcome their insecurities and build confidence.

So instead of giving up on him or her, here are things you can do to help them overcome their insecurities.

1. Are you really willing to do this?

Before completely getting yourself involved in a relationship with someone with insecurities and esteem issues you need to be sure that you’re willing and ready to deal with your partner’s insecurities.

If you’re not sure you can handle it, it's best to break things off immediately. You really do not need the stress of biting more than you can chew. To thyself be true.

2. Valid compliments

If you have crossed that bridge of self-examination and honest introspection and have found yourself willing to give things a try, your first task would be to learn the art of giving meaningful compliments.

Compliments are always a great way to boost someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Compliment your partner on his/her clothes, hair, smile, features, personality, attitude, and so on. Compliments should be meaningful and you’ll want to be sure that you aren’t giving the same compliment over and over.

3. Respect any boundaries

If your partner is insecure, it’s likely that they'll have one or two boundaries. Maybe the whole “lights-on” thing is out the window, or maybe showering together is off-limits for now. Whatever the boundary may be, learn to respect it.

This will allow them the opportunity to warm up to you and become comfortable in their own time. You need to respect the pace at which they arrive there. You'd be overbearing and would put them off if you push too hard when they're yet unprepared for such levels of intimacy.

4. Be supportive

This cannot be overemphasized. Your partner may be sensitive about things like their weight, some other body concern,  the way they speak, etc.

Some of these things can be worked on and should your partner decide to work on these things, it would be wise to bend over backwards in support. Be there for him or her through the change process.

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5. Be prepared for slow change

In the right relationship with the right person, someone who is insecure will slowly but surely come around. The change won’t happen overnight and you should be patient enough for it.

When it does happen, it'll be for good and you need to trust the process and let the switch happen in its own time.

6. Always tell them you love them

Validation is key to someone with esteem issues especially if it is coming from someone they love.

That you constantly remind your partner that you love him or her will go a long way, especially if you always make sure to add that irrespective of body insecurities and any other personal thing they may be sensitive about, you love them and would rather them in your life than anyone else.

7. Good listening

An insecure partner will likely talk about his/her problems in random spurts, you’ll want to be sure that you always have a willing and ready ear. Being a good listener will allow you to understand your partner’s problems and worries and will lessen the severity of their insecurity.

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WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HAVING SEX, MAKING LOVE?

Here's the major differentiating factor.

Making love. Having sex. To many, these are just two different expressions for the same act.

One is even tempted to ask, aren't both of these things supposed to mean the same thing? Afterall, the bottom line is that in both situations, bodies connect and sexual sparks are sent flying. So what could possibly be the distinguishing factor between these two?

Having sex versus Making love

Apparently there is a difference between when you make love and when you have sex.

And the singular distinction is in the state of mind of both people engaging in the act; the level of connection and all the situations surrounding and leading up to the act itself.

Sex is in itself primal; a basic need that is just as instinctive and naturally occurring as the hunger for food. The need to satisfy the urge for sex and to feel the gratification that comes from humping is not on the same level as love-making.

Chimps, rabbits, bulls, Zebras... they all have sex. That's exactly the category into which that need belongs. It is a thing devoid of the emotional dimension that sex often comes with.

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As Christina Antonyan of Thought Catalogue writes in 2016;

"It’s very easy and ordinary to just have sex, but to know how to connect… on a deeper level, and win over heart, mind and soul takes a little bit of commitment.

"...sex without love is not lovemaking."

This is not to say that sex as painted in the context above is not a great thing. Hey, people have had mind-blowing one-night stands that they could never replicate with people they 'have a connection with' and 'make love with.'

People have sex with random strangers all the time. Several forms of casual sex is indeed a thing that society brims with.

Despite the moral campaigns against it, people have been known to explore this anti-social aspect of their humanity to mind-blowing effect. And it's just fine so far these are consenting adults who recognise all the things that could go and decide to still engage - with or without adequate precautions.

On the flipside, love-making is what people aspire to when they get into relationships and marriages. That longing for something deeper, a deep-rooted intimacy that surpasses the passionate nights and morning quickies.

"The best part about lovemaking is that it becomes effortless, because you are not thinking about what Olympic – style performance you should put on.

You become your authentic self at that moment," adds Christina Antonyan.

Lovemaking is a summation of the affection you feel towards the person even when they are fully clothed, sharing their dreams with you and you with them. It is the concern for them and their well-being; it is the connection on a greater pedestal which continues even when the andrenalin rush of sex has dissipated; the days shared, memories created, problems solved together, losses suffered together, emotions shared, pain together borne, hurdles together crossed and triumphs together won.

And all these things combined makes for a closeness so intimate, and this understanding beyond the visceral is what makes for the best sex ever. The type you call love-making.

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