WHY CELIBACY BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A GREAT IDEA

All the reasons why celibacy before marriage remains such a beautiful, brilliant idea.

Sex before marriage may seem like the new cool but premarital celibacy still has great merits.

The traditional/religious view that lovers should keep their hands off each other may no longer apply to many relationships these days; and this is because more young people are confidently exploring their sexuality and getting in tune with that part of themselves and that is just fine for those who choose to roll that way.

While that may be a thing, it is also still OK to crave celibacy before marriage and if that is what your aim is, these are six reasons why it is such a great idea:

1. Communication is better

Without sexual activity, time spent together will be used on other things such as more deep, soul-searching conversations and stronger bonds.

2. Better friendship

Where communication thrives, it is only normal for friendship levels to rise, too. So you and your partner are not just burning bright on the sparks flying when you kiss andhave each other's hands roving over each other, you glow off the positive vibes created by the other person.

3. Your connection is deeper

Imagine the closeness and intimacy built over shared dreams and expressed fears and revealed truths and secrets... it can only make you a lot closer and more intimate with your partner.

4. No illusions

This is what you get when there is no chance of sex clouding your judgement in a relationship.

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5. Hurts less if you break up

For people who attach self esteem to body count, you can be sure that id anything happens, your body count would remain intact.

6. More ways to show affection

Without sex, you’d have no option but to access other ways of expressing love and affection and this can only be good for your relationship.
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5 WAYS TO GET OVER YOUR EX IN A MATURE WAY

You can get over that relationship and your ex in a mature way if you follow these steps.

Breakups happen every time, and they are undeniably nerve-wrecking affairs. But you can get over that relationship and your ex in a mature way.

Not only can you move on in a mature way, you can also cut short the time needed for the average person to do so. Here's how:

1. Don't over-push for closure

Closure is overrated as this opinion piece explains - and it's true.

To move on quickly, if your partner does not agree to meet up or converse about what went wrong in the relationship, or explain why it's breaking up, don't push for too long.

No need to delay your healing period because of a closure that's never coming. Forget about closure and move on.

2. Cry if you feel like it

Forget what Fergie says: big girls do cry when they're hurt. If it hurts and it's unbearable and you need an avenue to let out those unpleasant emotions, just cry it out if the tears come. The tears are significant of an emotional purge and that's infinitely better than bottling in emotions.

3. Get yourself back

Instead of trying to get her back when he or she has obviously closed the possibility of that happening in this lifetime, strive instead to get yourself back.

Join a bookclub, a sports team, your work force in church, your community cleaning team, a young outreach team... anything. Just get back to doing stuff you enjoy.

4. That block button

Do not forget to use it on all social media platforms.

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5. Take a look in the mirror

Yeah, the breakup hurts and you think he or she is an asshole for dumping you, and you're probably right. But also, it is important to do some introspection. What could you have done better? Is there a chance that you goaded them into doing the things they did? What lessons can be taken into subsequent relationships, never forget to consider these things, too.

It is important that after a while, you will need to get into a relationship, and you have to make that better than the previous one.

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5 THINGS EVERY GUY WANTS TO HEAR DURING SEX

So ladies, what and what should you say to your partner during sex?

If there are things to not say during sex, then there have to be things to say during sex, right?

For women, to be able to rightly communicate your needs wants and words of validation for Le Boo during sex, you must have attained a level of confidence in your sexuality.

Without sexual confidence, not only will you leave your pleasure to chance, you’ll also be dulling your partner and shortchanging yourself. Communication during sex is a tool for experiencing better sex and of course, building better bonds.

So what and what should you say to your partner during sex?

1. Touch here

Yes, a guy should have the basic knowledge of what to do and places to touch but because all women are not the same and your body might have special requirements, you absolutely should be willing and ready to direct him to where true pleasure really lies.

2. Don’t stop

Doing the same thing over and over again might become too boring. On the flipside it might feel so good no matter how long it takes.

So if you are enjoying something he’s doing and he tries to switch things up, don’t be too shy to speak up.

“No, don’t stop…”

3. Yes, you’re doing good!

Don’t just let your moans suggest this. Be positive about it, too!

If he’s good and he’s hitting all the right spots, come on, you need to speak up.

You know how what good validation does for men.

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4. Dirty talk

Find your ‘slutty’ and operate on that level. A dirty word here, and another one there won’t hurt nobody, provided you and your man both swing in that direction.

5. I liked it when you…

Don’t forget to give positive reviews afterwards. Whether during pillow talk or on the morning after.

Since he’s your partner for the long term, you need to let him know what he got right and whether could do better next time.

You know what’s better than bomb sex today?

Bomb sex tomorrow and every other time!

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7 THINGS EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO HEAR DURING SEX

All the magic words to use with your bae just before, during and after sex...

The right words can turn her on, boost her confidence, and keep her coming back for more.

Your woman wants to always communicate with you, and she expects the same from you.

During dates, on warm weekend afternoons when you’re both just chilling at home, and even during sex!

“Words can be a powerful aphrodisiac and often aren’t used enough,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., an American relationships expert.

While there are things you should not say to your babe during sex, there are also some things you tell her that have the power to seriously get her in the mood, increase her sexual confidence with you and make the whole experience brain-bursting for both of you every single time.

Just make sure to keep things honest, specific and brief everytime. Talking too much when the mood is almost set might actually work against you

So what are the magic words to use with your bae just before, during and after sex that’ll ensure that the experience is bomb all the time

1. Complement her hair

Just so you know, words are great for foreplay, too. Apart from the obvious erogenous zones that you can’t do without noticing – hello?! – you  also have to do more to appreciate your girl’s physical appearance and make her feel attractive.

The hair is one thing women love to be appreciated for, given how much time and money they spend on it.

If she’s the type that’s into hair-pulling, you can promise her some of that, too.

2. Talk about her kisses

You can’t take this away from any love making session as it is the most common foreplay.

So let your woman know she’s doing a fine job of it.

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3. Dirty talk

This is great either before or during sexy time. But make sure it’s something your woman is comfortable with and also, be careful to not cross the line of what is sexy and what’s off-putting.

“I can’t wait to have your warm body in my arms” sounds nice.

“I can’t wait to be inside you.” Sounds fine, too. It all depends on the level of freak you and your girl have reached.

4. I can’t get enough of your…

Insert the part of her body that drives crazy the most.

And do it in the most expressive manner you can muster.

While women have been advised to not project their body insecurities during sex, it actually makes sense to give positive feedback of that body when she gets naked with you.

It does not mean you are not being sincere, you are just focusing on the positives in that moment.

Easy, right?

5. That head game

Your relationship is actually half dead if you don’t give head, according to a poll Pulse conductedhere.

So learn to do it and enjoy it. And if what she brings to the table for you to eat is satisfactory, you gotta let her know, bruh.

Also if her oral sex game is good, let her know.

6. Moan

Yeah, we get it. Men hold it in and just let out the occasional grunt. But it’s actually OK to moan sometimes.

Do it for a change.

7. Wow!

This is a simple exclamation loaded with all sorts of excitement and mindblowing sensations you must have felt during the sex.

By doing this, you let her know that she just blew your mind and no words could suffice than that breathless exclamation!

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WHAT YOU SHOULDN'T SAY TO YOUR MAN DURING SEX

All the things better left unsaid when you're both getting it on..

It is hard to imagine a man that does not like a woman that is vocal in bed.

And the things guys want to hear during sex range from pleasurable moans, how well they are doing and dirty talk [for those that find such things sexy.]

The list actually stretches further but this article aims to focus on something else – what are the things women should not say during sex?

In a previous article, we explained the things that men should not say during sex because it turns women off; and now we list the six things women should avoid saying during sex because they could ruin the moment.

1. Do you love me?

As you might have heard, sex is more physical for men and emotional for women. And while clarifying issues of the heart is not a bad thing, many men would rather have you discuss it before or after sex… not during.

2. What are we now?

This is another example of how women quickly merge sex and emotions [mind you, no one is saying it’s a bad thing.]

Women usually reserve this question till after sex, but for some reason, some babes pop it during the act. [SMH]

Let’s assume you didn’t know men find it unsexy. Now you do. So, stop it!

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3. What are you trying to do?

This is after you have probably been kissing and touching his body and letting him feel yours for about 10 or 15 minutes.

Please, ladies, stop asking this question because, of course, you know he’s not trying to undress you for academic or medical purposes!

So why ruin the moment with this kinda question???

4. Do you think I’m overweight?

Weight is one sensitive issue that many women are insecure about and this, of course, is what makes them ask the question.

But, hey, aren’t y’all having sex already? Doesn’t that tell you that he has no qualms about what your body looks or feels like???

It’s better to clear this issue before you both get naked. Seriously.

Besides, there are men who love big women. When in doubt, just assume he's one of those guys and enjoy the moment.

Even if he now happens to not like your body, the best time to discuss it is not during sex. Wait till afterwards.

5. What about the money I asked for?

LOL. Think this is just plain and simple blackmail, really.

Women know men would say and grant any request during sex and they just exploit it.

Later, these same women will say men are scum.

6. Aren’t you done?

Well, now I am.

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5 SIGNS THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A SAPIOSEXUAL

A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to a person’s intellect way more than their body.

Every parent wants their daughter to date a smart man. A guy who is very knowledgeable, well-mannered and has a way around every conversation.

Are you familiar with the dating term sapiosexual or sapiosexuality? A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to a person’s intellect way more than their body.

They get turned on by wit, intelligence, and a quick mind, and they’d rather listen to you flex your verbal dexterity than watch you flex your quads at the gym.

Here are signs that you might be dating a sapiosexual.

·         Bookstore over bar

Books bring the world to our feet. His idea of a perfect date is moving from one store to another or checking online bookshop to recommend books for your date to read. You might need up narrating your favorite book instead of enjoying the moment.

·         Great conversation over sex

Not because he doesn’t love sex or a one-night stand, he always has something to talk about from feminine related issues to sports and what’s buzzing in the entertainment. He is the repository of news.

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·         Intellectual beauty over luxurious things

He doesn’t rate a person’s accomplishment by their physical assets with those hefty prices. He measures success by what they know and what invigorates them to personal greatness.

He is not looking for a smart narcissist; he makes acquaintances with people who have a zest for knowledge, learning, and discussion.

·         Quality over trends

Individual taste or preference is important. He tends to value substance over what is popular. Change is necessary but he doesn’t switch his lifestyle to meet a certain standard because you proposed.

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