Wednesday, May 2, 2018

WHY ARE YOU RUSHING TO GET MARRIED?

Better single and slaying than married and miserable.
I’ll be the first to categorically state that weddings are beautiful and marriages can be sweet.
Having documented so many weddings and having seen the intensity of the joy on couples’ faces at ceremonies, this much can not be denied.
To beautify a wedding is easy. All you need do is pay a good event planner and that’s settled.
To have a beautiful marriage is however a different thing entirely, and you definitely can’t pay anyone to sweeten your marital union.
No matter how long you have been in a relationship with someone, once the seal of marriage is stamped on that relationship, something changes.
For people who had lovely relationships before their marriages, it might be subtle and they might seamlessly blend into it but that change is undeniable.
The threshold of commitment, faithfulness, honesty, effort and all other traits you used to keep the relationship going will become higher.
The margin for error becomes lower. Of course, no one expects perfection, but the need to strive for something close to it becomes ever-so obvious, almost palpable.
And it would appear that a lot of people are yet to understand this. Or maybe they do know and are just not ready for it.

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The rate of divorce attests to this. Marriages crash every other day.
Of the marriages yet to officially crash, a glum-inducing number have failed and are only being held together by frazzled reasons such as the presence of children and to keep up appearances.
The Nigerian society is one that places premium on marital status so much so that at time of writing this piece, I am 75% sure that a mother is calling her son to ask why he’s yet to come introduce his wife-to-be to her.
A father is sat on a rocking chair, complaining to his friend that his 24-year old graduate daughter is just pursuing her career, making money but not giving any consideration to men and marriage.
Friends are no different. Once a number of people in a circle walk down the aisle, they put others under pressure to do the same.
Though they often do this with the best intentions and while some would almost shame you into marrying, others do it subtly and even unintentionally.
People have also been known to place personal pressures on themselves to get married.
And then there’s social media, age factor, and family members [read busybody aunts and uncles] who can’t go a week without reminding you that your biological clock is ticking like the timer on a bomb.
What all these pressure groups [isn’t that what they are?] fail to realise is that there is a different time for everybody and what applies to one does not necessarily apply to all.
To get married, have babies, do PDA for the gram and other cute stuff is what almost everyone desires but not everyone is ready yet.
And to jump into it without adequate financial, mental, emotional stability is to dig a pit for yourself which will actually widen and worsen till it swallows you whole.
Not your aunt, dad, uncle, mum, sister or those friends pressuring you to marry. Just you.
Thinking about marriage when you’re not even self-sufficient is a catastrophic state of mind.
So is planning to get married without having taken charge of your emotions.
How wise and sensible are you with money? How about that temper? What’s up with that uncouth mouth?
Do you know the level of importance to attach to your spouse and the one to attach to friends? Do you even know about birth control? How about money-making ideas, do you have any?
Are you trustworthy, do you know how to trust? How about sexual compatibility, have you had thattalk about sexual preferences?
Does your partner know or possess these traits? Because to have most of them and get married to someone who does not might be just as catastrophic.
It is not enough to love someone. Don’t be fooled. Love is never enough.
There are really so many boxes to fill and check before one could ever deem one’s self ready for a successful marriage, a lifetime of togetherness.
And if you’re reading this and know deep down you are nowhere close, why, then, are you rushing to get married?

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WHAT YOU SHOULDN'T SAY TO YOUR MAN DURING SEX

All the things better left unsaid when you're both getting it on..
It is hard to imagine a man that does not like a woman that is vocal in bed.
And the things guys want to hear during sex range from pleasurable moans, how well they are doing and dirty talk [for those that find such things sexy.]
The list actually stretches further but this article aims to focus on something else – what are the things women should not say during sex?
In a previous article, we explained the things that men should not say during sex because it turns women off; and now we list the six things women should avoid saying during sex because they could ruin the moment.

1. Do you love me?

As you might have heard, sex is more physical for men and emotional for women. And while clarifying issues of the heart is not a bad thing, many men would rather have you discuss it before or after sex… not during.

2. What are we now?

This is another example of how women quickly merge sex and emotions [mind you, no one is saying it’s a bad thing.]
Women usually reserve this question till after sex, but for some reason, some babes pop it during the act. [SMH]
Let’s assume you didn’t know men find it unsexy. Now you do. So, stop it!
3. What are you trying to do?
This is after you have probably been kissing and touching his body and letting him feel yours for about 10 or 15 minutes.
Please, ladies, stop asking this question because, of course, you know he’s not trying to undress you for academic or medical purposes!
So why ruin the moment with this kinda question???

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4. Do you think I’m overweight?
Weight is one sensitive issue that many women are insecure about and this, of course, is what makes them ask the question.
But, hey, aren’t y’all having sex already? Doesn’t that tell you that he has no qualms about what your body looks or feels like???
t’s better to clear this issue before you both get naked. Seriously.
Besides, there are men who love big women. When in doubt, just assume he's one of those guys and enjoy the moment.
Even if he now happens to not like your body, the best time to discuss it is not during sex. Wait till afterwards.
5. What about the money I asked for?
LOL. Think this is just plain and simple blackmail, really.
Women know men would say and grant any request during sex and they just exploit it.
Later, these same women will say men are scum.
6. Aren’t you done?
Well, now I am.

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QUESTIONS YOU SHOULDN'T ASK WOMEN DURING SEX

Communicating during sex is great, so far you are not asking these three questions.
Communication has been well established as the bedrock of successful marriages and relationships.
Couples are rightly advised to be comfortable with each other to the point of being able to talk abouteverything, anywhere at at any time.
This rule only has a slight modification and it is that during sex, your ability to communicate needs to be tempered so as to not kill the mood. So you actually can speak, but not about everything.
And as a matter of rules, according to Inemesit Udodiong and Uwanma Odefa, many women would rather not hear the 3 questions listed below:

1. Are you cumming?

Speaking as a guest on the last episode of Nigerintopsecret "Love, Sex and Everything in Between" which is hosted by Inem Udodiong, Uwanma Odefa explains that women don't like it when men ask this particular question during sex.
According to her, instead of preoccupying yourself with this thought, "just keep doing what you are doing and when [your woman] gets 'there', you will know."
On the other hand, she says, men could actually be pardoned for asking this because most women are yet to develop the confidence act of actually discussing what they like with their partners, and without this, men can't really be blamed for wanting to know if they are getting things right or not.

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2. Who's your daddy?

Expressing an opinion on why guys should avoid asking this question during this sex, Inemesit says"I get the whole BDSM angle to the question but if I'm [being shagged] by someone and he asks 'who's your daddy?' the first thought that comes to my mind is my father, and that's not who I want to be talking about when having sex."
3. Don't ask questions about your size
"Is my size what you are used to?"
"Do you think I'm big enough?"
Women are turned off by questions of this nature  and would rather have you stay off the subject during sex so as not to dampen the mood.

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Tuesday, May 1, 2018

5 STRANGEST THINGS WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE IN YOU

There are actually women who are attracted to short and talkative guys. Wawu!
Women often give off the vibe that you are nothing if you are not, at least, six feet tall with the chiseled body of a rock star and bulging muscles of a relentless gym rat.
Guys, relax. All of that is apparently banter as it does not reflect the whole truth of what women find attractive.
As opposed to what they’d make you believe, women actually have weird attractions and below are some of the most surprising ones.
1. Gray hair
Young women seem to have a thing for gray hair. Not necessarily a full head of it, but just enough speckle of it and you’ll have them drooling all over you.
It’s probably a thing to do with women preferring older men to younger, inexperienced ones.

2. The happy trail

You know that thin line of hair that teases from your stomach and disappears into your pants? It’s makes certain women breathless and excited. No wonder they call it the happy trail.

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3. Scars

Some women are  attracted to the fading signs left behind by healed wounds.
They say they are rugged, masculine, exciting and hot. Bruh…

4. Not so tall guys

Rejoice, short guys!
All hope is not lost, apparently. In a world of constant romanticizing of 6 feet plus, there are women who are actually drawn to something radically different.
In an opinion poll conducted on Reddit, women say they have a thing for short dudes.
"I just think tall guys are kinda intimidating. I like to have conversations at face level."
Guys, just look at God!
5. Talkative guys
Moni, a 23-year-old student tells me that she finds guys attractive when they can talk for long periods without getting tired.
“I like talking a lot. So I love it when I am talking with a guy and he never gets tired as most guys tend to do with babes.
"If he can indulge my talkative nature and keep up, he’s got my 65% of my heart already.”
Weird, isn’t that?

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7 WEIRDEST THINGS MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE IN YOU

Who knew anyone would ever find stubbornness attractive in a woman?
It is quite easy to guess what men generally find attractive in women-  a pretty face, nice curves, good manners, and every other thing nice.
While we could go on mentioning the great, endearing attributes that almost every man would be attracted to in a heartbeat, we've also discovered, from research and questioning guys, that there are some weird things that men love about women, things you would never have guessed or imagined.
Some of these things are 'special' personal preferences, and some are a bit common among men... but they are all weird none-the-less.
Below, we list seven weird things men find attractive in women - watch out for number 3 and 4!
1. Weakness
Not weakness in the sense of being unable to stand up and speak for yourself, or being spineless but as Francis puts it "I like it when my girl calls me to help her solve riddles, lift stuff or provide answers to things that confuse her. I think it's so cute. Makes me feel like a man"
All men love to have their ego stroked once in a while, right?

2. Applying makeup

From the way men complain about women wasting time with makeup, it's quite strange to discover that some men actually love watching them apply it.
Foundation for a relationship on fleek, maybe?

3. Stubbornness

Okay. This is straight up weird AF. Who loves a stubborn woman, right?
Well, Chibuzor says "I love stubbornness in a woman... I don't know why, I can't explain it, I just do."
It's probably about the thrill of conquering and subduing her. We guess.
4. Stretch marks
Never thought the word stretch-mark and attractive would ever be used in the same sentence but some guys actually find stretch marks attractive.
They say it's something about loving a woman "despite her imperfections."
Fair enough.

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5. Wearing glasses
This is quite common and very understandable - women in glasses are usually very good looking.
Why this makes our list is because women who wear glasses sometimes fear they are unattractive because of that.
If only you knew how gorgeous those frames make you look!
6. No make up
"I just like it when she can feel comfortable around me without makeup. I feel she needs to know that with or without makeup, I find her gorgeous" says Ibidapo.
7.Clumsiness
While it is cool to be well-behaved, comported, and calm, quite a number of guys have also shown interest in women with clumsy, goofy sides - those who are not always serious or uptight and can make those crazy faces for selfies.


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3 SIGNS THAT IT'S TIME TO END YOUR FWB RELATIONSHIP

Friends with benefit relationships are often temporary and this is how you know that you've reached the end of the cycle.

Depending on which stage you’re at in life right now, a friends with benefit relationship could be the exact thing you need.

 “No one has to go through the motions of a relationship just because they need to smash regularly.
"If you are not ready for a relationship but need to continue being sexually active, there’s no qualms with having a friend with benefits so far you both understand [both the advantages] and the terms and conditions involved
One more thing to note is that friends with benefit relationships are meant to be temporary, and they almost always reach an expiration after a while. It’s the very nature of the bond.
And so how do you know you have reached the end of a cycle?

1. Respect is gone

The bedrock of FWB relationships is friendship; and that itself can’t exist without respect.
The moment you feel he or she has begun to treat you with disdain, or speak to you with a disrespectful tone, just know it’s time to withdraw the benefits - and maybe the friendship, too.

2. There’s someone else

Of course, at some point, one of you was bound to find someone new and move into a committed relationship.
You are not allowed to get jealous when that partner decides to try a serious relationship with someone else. If it’s you who finds a relationship first, show some respect to your partner and let your FWB go.

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3. Emotions are involved
Once you catch yourself overreacting over stuff your FWB partner does, you should know it’s time to bring that adventure to an end.
If you start going overboard with shows of emotions as you would do with someone you are emotionally committed to, it does not bode well for the relationship; the cardinal rule of which is that you are to not catch feelings.

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