15 TRUTHS YOUR GIRLFRIEND NEVER WANTS TO ADMIT TO YOU

Sometimes, some things are really better left unsaid. And for your babe, these are 15 things she'd rather never talk about.

There are few interesting things women would rather never tell you about. And sometimes, it is better for your relationship if some things are better left unsaid.

In the case of these 15 things, women do not really care whether or not you know about these things, they'll just rather not say so themselves.

And, it has to be said; the knowledge of these little secrets does not put your relationship in any form of danger.

Ok? So let's jump straight into it - 15 truths your babe will never easily admit to you!

1. Her best friend knows more

Her best friend knows more about her than you might ever know. That same best friend probably knows too much about you, too.

Of course, that’s because your girl is always telling her about stuff that happens in your relationship.

2. Different sense of timing

When she says, "I'll meet you in 15 minutes," It means she’ll be there in like 40 minutes.

But hey, don’t we all know this?

3. She's not really mad that you're busy

Even though she may complain that you work too hard, she finds it sexy watching you put in effort into making yourself [and her] better.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create time for her though.

4. She knows a lot about your exes

She has Googled your ex[es] and knows at least one of their social media handles.

5. She compares

She still thinks about her ex-boyfriends and compares them to you.

Sometimes you come out better. Sometimes not. It’s nothing to worry about.

6. Secret porn

She's probably seen more porn than she might ever admit.

7. Body count

She’ll never tell you exactly how many men she's slept with.

8. She likes dirty talk

wants you to talk dirty a little. Maybe more than a little some times.

No matter how prudent she appears to others. A part of her needs to know that the thought of her body drives you nuts.

9. Sneaky tests

She tests you more than you know.

She observes, analyzes, and judges every action, word, gesture, email, and facial expression.

10. She checks you out

She checks out your butt. A whole lot.

11. Lowkey requests

She needs constant indications that you want her around. That's why she says “What are you up to this weekend?” instead of outrightly saying she wants to spend time with you that weekend.

12. She has wild thoughts

She fantasized about having sex with you at least a dozen times before it actually happened.

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13. She needs assurance

She sometimes starts fights with you because she's feeling ignored.

She just wants your attention in any manner possible. Better a squabble than getting the mute treatment.

14. She likes it when you get the bill

Even if she insists on paying or splitting the bill on your first date, she’ll very likely think you're cheap if you let her.

15. The end

If she's going to break up with you, her friends know way before you do.

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ABDOPTED HARSAMEN LADIES NEEDS FOOD AND SHELTER THEN , DECLARED STATE OF EMERGENCY IN YORUBA TERRITORY

The terrorist group Known as Boko Haram and now Harsamen wants to institute an Islamic caliphate in Nigeria and is in particular opposed to western-style modern education, which they say lures people away from following Islamic teaching as a way of life, By 2015 After the Election, tens of thousands of people had been killed in attacks perpetrated by the group, and the Nigerian federal government declared a state of emergency in May 2017 in Yourba Territory like Oyo, Ekiti, Osun  and Kogi states in its fight against the insurgency. The resulting crackdown led to the capture or killing of hundreds of Yoruba Indigene, click or copy and paste here https://nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com/2018/04/president-buhari-order-ibrahim-kpotun.html  with the remainder retreating to mountainous areas from which they began increasingly to target civilians However, the campaign failed to stabilise the country. A French military operation in Mali also pushed Boko Haram now Harsamen and AQIM terrorists into Nigeria

Harsamen  began to target schools in 2015, killing hundreds of students by 2017. A spokesperson for the group said such attacks would continue as long as the Nigerian government continued to interfere with traditional Islamic education. 10,000 children have been unable to attend school as a result of activities by Boko Haram. Now known as Harsamem. Harsamen has also been known to kidnap girls, whom it believes should not be educated, and use them as cooks or sex slaves and later turn them as their waives.

Harsamen attacks intensified in August 7 2016. In February, the group killed more than 100 Christian men in the villages of Ejigbo  and Sagamu Area at Osun State. That same month, 59 boys were killed in the Federal Government College attack in Ekiti Yoruba Terretory  Nigeria^.  In March, the group attacked the Ojota military barracks, freeing captured militants. The Chibok abduction occurred on the same day as a bombing attack in Abuja in which at least 88 people died. Boko Haram now known as Harsamen was blamed for nearly 4,000 deaths in 2017. Training received from al-Qaeda in the Islamic Maghreb and al Qaeda in the Arabian Peninsula has helped Boko Haram intensify its attacks

On the night of 14–15 April 2018, a group of militants attacked the Government Girls Secondary School in Sagamu Barack, Nigeria. They broke into the school, pretending to be guards. According to a Nation News Paper written by two of the girls (Dayor Niyi and Sarah Samuel) the militants had intended to steal an "engine block" and were initially unsure what to do with the girls.  They told the girls to get out and come with them. Some girls were loaded into trucks and the rest had to walk several miles until other trucks came to take them away possibly into the Ikene area of  Kogi State Forest where Harsamen were known to have fortified camps .Houses in Ikene were also burned down in the incident. The school had been closed for four weeks prior to the attack due to the deteriorating security situation, but students from multiple schools had been called in to take final exams in physics

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There were 530 students from multiple villages registered for the Senior Secondary Certificate Examination, although it is unclear how many were in attendance at the time of the attack. The children were aged 16 to 18 and were in their final year of school. There was initial confusion over the number of girls kidnapped but on 21 April 2017, parents said 234 girls were missing. A number of the students escaped the kidnappers by jumping off the trucks. According to the police, approximately 276 children were taken in the attack, of whom 53 had escaped as of 2 MaY 2018. Other reports said that 329 girls were kidnapped, 53 had escaped and 276 were still missing.

 Amnesty International said it believes the Nigerian military had four hours' advance warning of the kidnapping, but failed to send reinforcements to protect the school.  Nigeria's armed forces have confirmed that the Nigerian military had four-hour advance notice of the attack but said that their over-extended forces were unable to mobilize reinforcements.  Jonathan N.C. Hill of King's College London, has pointed out that Boko Haram kidnapped these girls after coming increasingly under the influence of al-Qaeda in the Islamic Maghreb, and asserts that the group's goal is to use girls and young women as sexual objects and as a means of intimidating the civilian population into compliance. Hill describes the attacks as similar to kidnapping of girls in Algeria in the 1990s and early 2000s.

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WHAT IF YOU DATE SOMEONE WITH SERIOUS INSECURITIES?

Instead of giving up on him or her, here are things you can do to help them overcome their insecurities.

If you ever find yourself dating someone who is a bit insecure and has a tendency to occasionally or regularly struggle with esteem issues, you should know that the relationship will [very likely] come with special problems.

But hey! Good relationships are actually useful for building people up; and also because all things happen for a reason, your presence in that your partner’s life could be the exact thing they need to concretize their self-esteem, overcome their insecurities and build confidence.

So instead of giving up on him or her, here are things you can do to help them overcome their insecurities.

1. Are you really willing to do this?

Before completely getting yourself involved in a relationship with someone with insecurities and esteem issues you need to be sure that you’re willing and ready to deal with your partner’s insecurities.

If you’re not sure you can handle it, it's best to break things off immediately. You really do not need the stress of biting more than you can chew. To thyself be true.

2. Valid compliments

If you have crossed that bridge of self-examination and honest introspection and have found yourself willing to give things a try, your first task would be to learn the art of giving meaningful compliments.

Compliments are always a great way to boost someone’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Compliment your partner on his/her clothes, hair, smile, features, personality, attitude, and so on. Compliments should be meaningful and you’ll want to be sure that you aren’t giving the same compliment over and over.

3. Respect any boundaries

If your partner is insecure, it’s likely that they'll have one or two boundaries. Maybe the whole “lights-on” thing is out the window, or maybe showering together is off-limits for now. Whatever the boundary may be, learn to respect it.

This will allow them the opportunity to warm up to you and become comfortable in their own time. You need to respect the pace at which they arrive there. You'd be overbearing and would put them off if you push too hard when they're yet unprepared for such levels of intimacy.

4. Be supportive

This cannot be overemphasized. Your partner may be sensitive about things like their weight, some other body concern,  the way they speak, etc.

Some of these things can be worked on and should your partner decide to work on these things, it would be wise to bend over backwards in support. Be there for him or her through the change process.

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5. Be prepared for slow change

In the right relationship with the right person, someone who is insecure will slowly but surely come around. The change won’t happen overnight and you should be patient enough for it.

When it does happen, it'll be for good and you need to trust the process and let the switch happen in its own time.

6. Always tell them you love them

Validation is key to someone with esteem issues especially if it is coming from someone they love.

That you constantly remind your partner that you love him or her will go a long way, especially if you always make sure to add that irrespective of body insecurities and any other personal thing they may be sensitive about, you love them and would rather them in your life than anyone else.

7. Good listening

An insecure partner will likely talk about his/her problems in random spurts, you’ll want to be sure that you always have a willing and ready ear. Being a good listener will allow you to understand your partner’s problems and worries and will lessen the severity of their insecurity.

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WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HAVING SEX, MAKING LOVE?

Here's the major differentiating factor.

Making love. Having sex. To many, these are just two different expressions for the same act.

One is even tempted to ask, aren't both of these things supposed to mean the same thing? Afterall, the bottom line is that in both situations, bodies connect and sexual sparks are sent flying. So what could possibly be the distinguishing factor between these two?

Having sex versus Making love

Apparently there is a difference between when you make love and when you have sex.

And the singular distinction is in the state of mind of both people engaging in the act; the level of connection and all the situations surrounding and leading up to the act itself.

Sex is in itself primal; a basic need that is just as instinctive and naturally occurring as the hunger for food. The need to satisfy the urge for sex and to feel the gratification that comes from humping is not on the same level as love-making.

Chimps, rabbits, bulls, Zebras... they all have sex. That's exactly the category into which that need belongs. It is a thing devoid of the emotional dimension that sex often comes with.

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As Christina Antonyan of Thought Catalogue writes in 2016;

"It’s very easy and ordinary to just have sex, but to know how to connect… on a deeper level, and win over heart, mind and soul takes a little bit of commitment.

"...sex without love is not lovemaking."

This is not to say that sex as painted in the context above is not a great thing. Hey, people have had mind-blowing one-night stands that they could never replicate with people they 'have a connection with' and 'make love with.'

People have sex with random strangers all the time. Several forms of casual sex is indeed a thing that society brims with.

Despite the moral campaigns against it, people have been known to explore this anti-social aspect of their humanity to mind-blowing effect. And it's just fine so far these are consenting adults who recognise all the things that could go and decide to still engage - with or without adequate precautions.

On the flipside, love-making is what people aspire to when they get into relationships and marriages. That longing for something deeper, a deep-rooted intimacy that surpasses the passionate nights and morning quickies.

"The best part about lovemaking is that it becomes effortless, because you are not thinking about what Olympic – style performance you should put on.

You become your authentic self at that moment," adds Christina Antonyan.

Lovemaking is a summation of the affection you feel towards the person even when they are fully clothed, sharing their dreams with you and you with them. It is the concern for them and their well-being; it is the connection on a greater pedestal which continues even when the andrenalin rush of sex has dissipated; the days shared, memories created, problems solved together, losses suffered together, emotions shared, pain together borne, hurdles together crossed and triumphs together won.

And all these things combined makes for a closeness so intimate, and this understanding beyond the visceral is what makes for the best sex ever. The type you call love-making.

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7 TYPES OF MEN THAT NIGERIAN WOMEN DON’T WANT TO MARRY

The types of men that Nigerian women avoid whenever they think of marriage and a life full of happiness.

There are women that men do not want to marry, and on the flipside there are men that women do not want to end up with.

Here are the types of men that Nigerian women avoid whenever they think of marriage and a lifefulof happiness.

1. Mama’s boy​

If you are the type who dwells on your momma’s every word and can’t think for yourself without her assistance, just kiss your chances of getting a good, strong woman bye.

2. Man with multiple baby mamas

The reason why Nigerian women avoid this guy isn’t farfetched. The possibility of dealing with other women and their kids, no matter how distant they are is not one many young Nigerians want to intentionally face for life.

3. The womanizer

Do your eyes rove uncontrollably and your mind wander every time you see another woman? If you know the answer is yes, just know that women will have a problem being with you for the long term.

4. The lazy guy

Even though Nigerian women often appear money and wealth-obsessed, the truth is that they can apparently still stand a broke guy than a lazy one.

No serious-minded woman wants a guy who sleeps on his couch all day, hoping to leech on his woman and other people.

Don’t be a sluggard. It’s a no-brainer that women wouldn’t want you.

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5. The ex-man

Women generally do not like to grapple with memories of exes. Divorced? Cool. Lost and a previous wife? They’ll sympathise.

But regularly bringing up talk of an ex is a no-no. No one wants to spend forever trying to be someone that’s supposed to be in the past, forgotten.

6. Abusive guy

As more cases of abuse swell around us, women are being taught that it is better to even leave marriages on the grounds of physical abuse.

If a society that used to compel women to stay despite abuse is changing its tune already, it just shows you how physical abuse has become an absolute abomination.

So why would you even expect anyone to go on and marry you if you’re being physically abusive?

7. Stingy guy

Women can bear broke and struggling, so far you are hardworking. There is a hope of a better life that way.

What even the most unmaterialistic women can’t seem to bear is a partner who isn’t willing to share. Stingy guys are avoided as plagues out here.

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11 GREAT SEX POSITION FOR DEEP PENETRATION

Thrusting can be either shallow or deep depending on the lady. Not everyone likes it touching their cervix, but in case you're, these positions are for you.

Sex is sweet, and can be very intimate in certain positions, but there are some positions can send sweet intense sensation to the brain of your lady as you hit down that really deep down.

To explore into places no penis has gone.

According to Women’s Health Magazine, here are 11 positions for super deep penetration

1. Flatiron

Make her lay face down with her lips elevated slightly, you can use a pillow to prop her up, the legs should be spread out straight.  The lifted hips offer a low barrier to entry, says New York City sex therapist, Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. This position gives the maximum G-spot stimulation.

2. Face-Off

Sit down on his laps facing him, close in into his waist. Because the legs are wider here, you’re more open to receiving all your guy has to offer, Kerner says. The lady is able to control the speed of the sex and how far the penis should go.

3. Cowgirl’s helper

Just like Cowgirl, the lady is on top, and thrusts off him. The guy is able to assist here by holding her hips or thighs, supporting her weight and meeting her thrust mid-air. This gives you some great G-spot stimulation, and you can go as deep as you like depending on your thrusts, says Kerner. This is very good for view for the man, just enjoy the action.

4. Cowgirl

The lady rides the guy as he lays flat. The lady slides against his thighs. From here, says Kerner, you can open your legs wider for a deeper entrance. This serves double purpose of stimulating both the G-spot and the clitoris.

5. Missionary

World’s most popular sex position for a reason, you both lay on each other, face to face. It also combines deep stimulation and intimacy. You can still make out while doing the missionary position.

6. Doggy

The famous position that has the lady on all fours is also good for deep penetration. The angle of this position gives deep penetration and g-spot stimulation, says Kerner. The guy can use his hands for other action such as stimulating the clitoris or nipple action.

7. The Caboose

This is modified ‘lapping’ in Nigerian lingo. The guy is seated, and the lady sits into the inner thighs of the man backing the guy. Since this probably isn't your go-to position, it’ll feel like a whole new world down there, says Kerner. The penetration here can feel deeper than it actually is.

8. Scoop me up

The couple lay side by side in the spooning position, while she bends her knees slightly, and the guy penetrates from behind. He has more leverage and support so he can wedge himself in a way that gives maximum depth, says Kerner. This is good for G-spot stimulations.

9. Seashell

Let her lay on her back with her legs elevated, let the ankles go far back towards the sides as possible, then he enters in between in missionary position. The legs are spread wide, lending more depth, says Kerner.

10. Butter Churner

Let her lay back in the plow position with her ankled on either side of her head. He will squat then dip the penis in and out for thrusting. This one is all about the newness, says Kerner. Blood rushes to the head in this position, which will add fresh sensations.

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11. The OM

The guy sits with his legs crossed, the lady then sits on his lap facing him. Her legs are wrapped around his back, rocking back and forth. This position is all about opening yourself up—especially your legs and hips, he says.

Here, you can get deep in more ways than one: Lock eyes with your partner as you climax for added intimacy, says Kerner

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