Even after the relationship ends, partners are left bearing
emotional scars for a long, long time
Everyone does not get to experience toxic
relationships. Those that don’t are actually the lucky few.
It looks like so many people have been involved at some point with
a partner who turns out to be nothing like what they initially thought he/she
was.
In other cases, the relationship begins in great fashion…
affection in place, communication on point and both partners finding it
difficult to believe that they could have been so lucky to find real substance
among the pool of potential partners.
Sadly, there are more false dawns than lasting relationships,
because, somewhere along the line, one partner becomes an ugly contrast of his
or her former self.
And for those who have been down this path, the pain is familiar -
searing, deep and so intense that the very core of their existence feels it.
In the end, after months or years of hoping something would
change, they eventually come to terms with reality and end the relationship.
By the time the relationship is over, however, its effects cannot
be quickly wiped away and so you go on bearing them for months or years,
depending on how much of yourself you invested and lost in that relationship.
Three of the worst effects of toxic relationships are listed here:
1. It’s addictive
Toxic relationships are usually the type that hold you down worst.
You know things have deteriorated, and that your partner is no longer good for
you as he once was.
All the traits that made you fall for that babe are now gone with
the wind, and you should let her go.
But you won’t be able to because it’ll hurt to let go of what you
have with them.
You hope that somewhere in all those terrible things they do,
there is still a good man or woman that’ll come bursting forth after a while.
And so you wait and wait.
You wait and wait some more, hooked and unable to leave until you
are so broken to be perfectly put back together ever again.
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2. It messes you up
There is a common pattern with this type of relationship. Your
partner treats you like dirt for as long as possible, and when you decide to
let them go, they come crying back to you, saying they are nothing without you
and that they’ll be destroyed if you leave.
So you are convinced and remain in the relationship and everything
gets back to being good… but it lasts only a while, and they’ll be back doing
those same things that hurt, break and kill you inside.
You decide to leave, and the cycle repeats itself.
You are left in the toxic loop, a constant cycle that leaves you
messed up, even after you give up on the relationship.
3. Leaves you needing an
emotional detox
You know how someone needs to be detoxified after taking harmful
substances? That’s how you’ll be after an unhealthy relationship.
A toxic partner drains you of all positive energy and fills you
with negative vibes. For a long time after you get out of the relationship, you
will still either be bitter, sad, angry, cynical and jaded, or an unbalanced
combination of all.
It really does take time to get these out. And maybe the gentle
touch of genuine love and affection will help speed up the process.
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