6 SIMPLE WAYS TO LIVE IN HARMONY WITH A PARTNER WHO HAS ANGER ISSUES

If you’re with someone with a temper, here’s how you can deal with it.

If your partner comes home upset, get active somehow. Once you noticed that your partner is angry, get them busy.

Give them a task they love and also involves brainstorming to keep them calm. Try this the next time you know your partner is upset about something, but not at their breaking point.

·         If they start yelling, walk away

Sometimes you just have to walk away for some minutes, days or months to save your relationship.

When your partner starts screaming at you for something that has absolutely nothing to do with you, simply walk out the door.

Leave them alone in the room to yell at the walls and pretty soon they’ll start feeling rather stupid to be acting so childish. More than likely, when you arrive back, they will apologize for behaving the way they did.

·         Partner mad? Punch a bag

Let’s be real, sometimes it feels good to hit something, as long as you don’t hurt anyone or anything. If your partner causes a mess whenever they are angry, buy them a punching bag and make it readily available when their mood switches.

Punching bags are actually pretty hard to hit, and not only will they get a workout, but they will also relieve a ton of stress.

·         Laugh

A good laugh heals a lot of hurts. When you partner says screaming, think about something really funny and laugh out loud. They will stop yelling and look at you confused. If you have any comedy skit on your phone, watch at that moment and ignore them.

·         Record them

When they go all ‘gaga’ just record them secretly and share the footage with them when they are calmed and relaxed. Or you can replay their behavior in all its glory for them, so they can see just how ridiculous they’re being. Next time, they probably will think twice about all the F-bombs they say, or maybe they will be so embarrassed that they won’t even raise their voice.

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·         Start dancing

When they want to act out, you too should put on a performance. If they are screaming, or stomping, or slamming kitchen cabinets, put your favorite song on replay and dance till you can’t stand on your feet again. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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3 THINGS TO NEVER DO IF YOU CATCH A PARTNER CHEATING

How not to behave when you discover your partner's unfaithfulness.

Unfaithful partners get discovered every now and then, but what next after that earth-shattering discovery? What are you supposed to do, and what are you not supposed to?

The chances of catching a cheating girlfriend or a cheating boyfriend are always there and when one does discover a cheating partner, they could either choose to end the relationship or continue with it.

Whatever the case though, these are things to never do when you catch your partner having an affair.

Below we list three of them:

1. Violence

Being cheated on is not grounds for battering your partner. The law will take its full course and you’d have lost on two sides - your partner, and your freedom.

You could argue that losing a shameless, cheating partner is not really a loss but still, the point stands.

It is enough heartbreak that your partner did not turn out to be deserving of your trust and affection as you thought they were. Don’t lose your freedom because of them. Domestic violence is never acceptable and resorting to that will leave you full of nothing but regret.

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2. Leak Nudes

Revenge porn or revenge pornography is the distribution of sexually explicit images or video of individuals without their consent and this is what you’d be guilty of if you decide, in your indignation, to share that picture of your partner online.

3. Making a public scene

Not because the cheating person deserves any pity of covering-up, reallly. You'd be doing this for yourself.

Causing a public scene either by fighting or screaming or something else will be embarrassing for you and you do not need that.

It is better to walk away from that scene of discovery and plot your next move without drawing the attention of a crowd.

You can noiselessly treat his or her fuck up. And that's the advisable, classy way to go about it. For more visit:  nigeriantopsecret.blogspot.com

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AT LEAST 50 PEOPLE WERE FEARED DEAD DURING A POLITICAL RALLY AT ASO KORO FEDERAL CAPITAL TERRITORY ABUJA BETWEEN PDP AND APC

At least 50 people were feared dead during a Political Rally at Aso Koro Abuja between PDP and APC

According to the News men,  The APC Members  came in numbers and just started shooting sporadically into the air with their guns; and there was pandemonium as people started fleeing for their lives,” a resident said. “They held sway for almost an hour during which they killed over 50 people, burning houses, food stuff and carted away domestic animals. Presently, we are hiding somewhere in a nearby village at Nassarawa State,’’ the resident stated.

Another resident said: “They were on the rampage to steal Money, food Stuffs and medical supplies. Even last two days, they raided a nearby town, and many others. There is tension everywhere and people have started fleeing.’’ Confirming the attack, the Chairman of Aso Okoro  Local Government Council, Federal Capital Territory Abuja Damilare Muhammad, said the attack lasted for about an hour on Tuesday  April 4, 2018.

Meanwhile,  The attack came days after about 50 persons were killed in a similar attack beside Aso Rock house during Muslim Morning prayer.

Sources said, scores of fighters stormed  A nearby Town, a few kilometers from Aso Rock Villa Federal Capital Abuja.


The chairman who could not give the casualty figures however said that the insurgents burnt many houses and looted foodstuff.
“They looted foodstuff, killed livestock and burnt the village completely, though for now I am yet to ascertain the number of those killed.


The PDP General Secretary Barrister Oluwdare Olutunde Ayanboye  is yet to react to the attack during the time of filing this report.
Confirming the attack, a member of the House of Representatives,Barrister Abdulahi Olowa  (APC), said: ‘’President Muhammadu Buhari is being fed with false information on a capability of APC ruling Nigerian Government  as they still carry out deadly strikes on PDP.

‘’The attacked  at Nearby village in Nassarawa State  last 2weeks and the recent attacks indicate  that the group is still able to carry out major attacks on PDP any where they are having Political Rally  and has not been defeated despite the successes achieved by Nigerian Police Men and Members of State Security Services.

The head of the election commission said last week he could not guarantee a free and fair voting 2019, citing interference from politicians and threats of violence against his colleagues. One election commissioner has quit and fled the country.

 Anti-riot police were patrolling in NassaRawa and Aso Rock Villa Abuja, two volatile Nigerian slums. Nearly 50 people have been killed by Area Boys since 2015 to 2018

In a statement issued by the U.S. embassy, foreign missions called for calm from all sides but acknowledged that the campaign had been damaging to regional stability.

"Following this campaign, there must be immediate, sustained, open and transparent dialogue involving all Nigerians to resolve the deep divisions that the electoral process has exacerbated," it said.

Speaking on the eve of the 2017 Presidential Election by APC Members ,  Buhari assured his countrymen and Nigeria allies that order would be restored.

"I tell all our international partners that we will get through this," he said. "We cannot remain in a perpetual state of politicking."

Mr. Damilare, who spoke with Nigerian Top Secret Blogger  on telephone on Thursday, said while the military continued to make claims of ‘decimating’ the Terrorist , the situation in Aso Rock Villa  had been “grossly under-reported” in a series of security reports filed by the military to Mr. Buhari. “The truth remains that the group is still very active in our areas.’’

 According to the lawmaker, no week or day passes without “one ugly incident taking place in the border communities. ‘’We want Mr. President to match words with actions because the terrorist are truly killing more people than he is even aware of, particularly in Aso Koro and Nassarawa State.

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HAUSA AND YORUBA YOUTH CLASH IN OJOTA LAGOS

Hausa and Yoruba youths at Ojota, Lagos allegedly clashed - There are reports that several persons may have lost their lives in the violent clash - The fight allegedly broke out after a Hausa youth reportedly beat up his Yoruba counterpart over a misunderstanding A violent clash between Hausa youths and Yoruba youths at Gida Panli, Kotomola in Ojota, New Garage, Lagos state has reportedly led to the death of several persons, while many others allegedly sustain different kinds of injuries. Punch reports that the fight started on Thursday, March 25, after a Hausa youth reportedly beat up his Yoruba counterpart over a misunderstanding.

The fight reportedly escalated Friday morning after some area boys stormed the Hausa settlement to avenged the Yoruba youth who was beaten. Commercial activities were reportedly grounded in the area and motorcycles destroyed by the two warring parties. A commercial driver in the area, Wale Ajayi, who spoke to the press said: “There was a misunderstanding yesterday (Thursday) between a Yoruba and Hausa youth. The Hausa guy reported him to some area boys in the area and they settled the issue. “Afterwards, he went to attack the Yoruba man and beat him up. That made the area boys to be angry. They attacked the Hausa man and the clash started. Traders had to vacate the area and many Hausa people had been chased away Security operatives have been drafted to the area to restore normalcy and the Lagos state Police Public Relations Officer, SP Chike Oti, confirmed the clash to the press. 

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 MANAGEMENT /  APPRAISAL SKILLS :  (SETTING OBJECTIVES AND CONDUCT APPRAISALS IN AN ORGANISATION)

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1. 1.     . Application of Abraham Maslow’s Law of Motivation in an organization  
2. 2.     .How Maslow’s law of motivation worked in an organization.
3. 3    Behavioral conduct in a banking Industries 

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The Maslow motivation theory is one of the best known and most influential theories on workplace motivation.

Psychologist Abraham Maslow first developed his famous theory of individual development and motivation in the 1940’s. He suggested that human beings have a hierarchy of needs. That is, that all humans act in a way which will address basic needs, before moving on to satisfy other, so-called higher level needs.

Maslow represented this theory as a hierarchical triangle. This shows how basic needs must be met before one can “climb” the hierarchy, to address more complex needs.

For example, first one must meet the basic, physiological need for food, water and warmth. After that the focus would be on the need to be safe, then the need to belong to social groups, and so on up the hierarchy.

Maslow believed that human beings have a strong desire to reach their full potential. In his own words:

“A man’s desire for self-fulfillment, namely the tendency for him to become actually in what he is potentially: to become everything that one is capable of being….”

Here, in a series of bullet points which can be read in a minute i.e  some essentials ways to understand motivation in the workplace

Maslow Motivation Theory: The Hierarchy of Needs

The Maslow motivation theory is typically represented by 5 steps:

·         Physiological needs – such as hunger, thirst and sleep

·         Safety needs – such as security, protection from danger and freedom from pain.

·         Social needs – sometimes also referred to as love needs such as friendship, giving and receiving love, engaging in social activities and group membership.

·         Esteem needs – these include both self-respect and the esteem of others. For example, the desire for self-confidence and achievement, and recognition and appreciation.

·         Self-actualization – This is about the desire to develop and realize your full potential. To become everything you can be.

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APC MURDERED PDP SPOKESMEN AND FREEZE HIS UNION BANK ACCOUNT

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APC MURDERED PDP SPOKESMEN AND FREEZE HIS UNION BANK ACCOUNT

An APC Members murdered a PDP Spokemen Mr Samuel Zadock in front of Union bank Nigerian Adamawa  state. The incident happens around 2.30 pm on 2/28/2018, when the PDP Spokesmen, Name Samuel Zadock intended withdrawing inside the banking hall but was turn down by the bank officials. when asking the reason behind the sudden change of services from the banker, The Banker says Union Bank of  Nigerian Mandated all customers not withdraw below forty thousand naira (N40,000) on the counter, ATM should be used. 

According to the news men, the account is new and the branch never issue any ATM for him yet, Samuel was told by the account officer to used teller to withdraw his cash when ever he wanted to withdraw, but that very day, all effort to withdraw his cash from the counter are in vain. As the PDP spokesmen (Samuel ) trying to react, one customer suspected to be APC Member bring out a gun and shot the spokesmen. Mr Samuel Zadock.

On Friday 2nd March, 2018, The Union bank of Nigerian Chairman Mr Enoch Peter and PDP Party’s National publicity Secretary, Mr Kola Gentle Ologbondiyan have private indoor chart at Union bank Headquarter Marina Lagos Island. According to the Union Bank Chairman Mr Enoch Peter, he narrated that Samuel Branch has been permanently closed and the staff that worked there are no ware to found. Meaning No files record for Samuel.  The police are still investigating the issue. 

 The Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, has reacted to the death of spokesman of Adamawa chapter Mr,‎ ‎Samuel Zadock.

Zadock was killed by gunmen on Wednesday 

Meanwhile, The Party’s National publicity secretary, Kola  Gentle Ologbondiyan reacting, expressed shock.

On his twitter page, he wrote: “The news of the murder of the@OfficialPDPNig Adamawa state Publicity Secretary came in as a rude shock to me and the Party as a family.

“This is a personal loss to me. Mr Samuel Zadock had helped to propagate in many ways the ideals of our great party.”

Furthermore,  former Vice President and chieftain of the Peoples Democratic Party, Atiku Abubakar, has condemned the latest sectarian crisis, which claimed the life of the Adamawa State PDP spokesperson, Samuel Zadock and 12 other victims.

Mr. Abubakar also condemned similar crisis in Kaduna and other places that have led to avoidable loss of lives in the country.
The former vice president said he was deeply embarrassed and utterly shocked by the continuing cycle of violence, revenge and counter revenge by ethnic warriors and militias in the country that has led to needless waste of precious human lives.

He noted that the reckless disregard for the sanctity of life is not only disturbing, but it also shows the failure of local leaders to manage differences and grievances, adding that “bloodshed cannot be the solution to those grievances.”

He explained that our common humanity is greater than our ethnic and religious differences and that the frequent resort to violence is inconsistent with the teachings of our religions about the sanctity of life.
Mr. Abubakar stressed that no society can achieve peace and happiness when love is replaced with violent and destructive hate and bigotry.
The former vice president called for cool headed approach to conflict resolutions instead of incitements to violence by ethnic and religious leaders, adding that those who encourage the destruction of life are unfit to lead others.

He also called for increased vigilance and prompt response to early signs of developing violence or conflicts in order to nip such crises in the bud.
He explained that the deployment of troops after lives have been lost “is tantamount to locking the stable door after the horse has bolted.”
While praising the efforts of security personnel and their sacrifices, he called for improved strategies and the use human intelligence to foil mass murderers before they strike. 

Proverb: The Book of Knowledge is a Terror to those that suppress the Truth.

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