7 TYPES OF MEN THAT NIGERIAN WOMEN DON’T WANT TO MARRY

The types of men that Nigerian women avoid whenever they think of marriage and a life full of happiness.

There are women that men do not want to marry, and on the flipside there are men that women do not want to end up with.

Here are the types of men that Nigerian women avoid whenever they think of marriage and a lifefulof happiness.

1. Mama’s boy​

If you are the type who dwells on your momma’s every word and can’t think for yourself without her assistance, just kiss your chances of getting a good, strong woman bye.

2. Man with multiple baby mamas

The reason why Nigerian women avoid this guy isn’t farfetched. The possibility of dealing with other women and their kids, no matter how distant they are is not one many young Nigerians want to intentionally face for life.

3. The womanizer

Do your eyes rove uncontrollably and your mind wander every time you see another woman? If you know the answer is yes, just know that women will have a problem being with you for the long term.

4. The lazy guy

Even though Nigerian women often appear money and wealth-obsessed, the truth is that they can apparently still stand a broke guy than a lazy one.

No serious-minded woman wants a guy who sleeps on his couch all day, hoping to leech on his woman and other people.

Don’t be a sluggard. It’s a no-brainer that women wouldn’t want you.

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5. The ex-man

Women generally do not like to grapple with memories of exes. Divorced? Cool. Lost and a previous wife? They’ll sympathise.

But regularly bringing up talk of an ex is a no-no. No one wants to spend forever trying to be someone that’s supposed to be in the past, forgotten.

6. Abusive guy

As more cases of abuse swell around us, women are being taught that it is better to even leave marriages on the grounds of physical abuse.

If a society that used to compel women to stay despite abuse is changing its tune already, it just shows you how physical abuse has become an absolute abomination.

So why would you even expect anyone to go on and marry you if you’re being physically abusive?

7. Stingy guy

Women can bear broke and struggling, so far you are hardworking. There is a hope of a better life that way.

What even the most unmaterialistic women can’t seem to bear is a partner who isn’t willing to share. Stingy guys are avoided as plagues out here.

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11 GREAT SEX POSITION FOR DEEP PENETRATION

Thrusting can be either shallow or deep depending on the lady. Not everyone likes it touching their cervix, but in case you're, these positions are for you.

Sex is sweet, and can be very intimate in certain positions, but there are some positions can send sweet intense sensation to the brain of your lady as you hit down that really deep down.

To explore into places no penis has gone.

According to Women’s Health Magazine, here are 11 positions for super deep penetration

1. Flatiron

Make her lay face down with her lips elevated slightly, you can use a pillow to prop her up, the legs should be spread out straight.  The lifted hips offer a low barrier to entry, says New York City sex therapist, Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. This position gives the maximum G-spot stimulation.

2. Face-Off

Sit down on his laps facing him, close in into his waist. Because the legs are wider here, you’re more open to receiving all your guy has to offer, Kerner says. The lady is able to control the speed of the sex and how far the penis should go.

3. Cowgirl’s helper

Just like Cowgirl, the lady is on top, and thrusts off him. The guy is able to assist here by holding her hips or thighs, supporting her weight and meeting her thrust mid-air. This gives you some great G-spot stimulation, and you can go as deep as you like depending on your thrusts, says Kerner. This is very good for view for the man, just enjoy the action.

4. Cowgirl

The lady rides the guy as he lays flat. The lady slides against his thighs. From here, says Kerner, you can open your legs wider for a deeper entrance. This serves double purpose of stimulating both the G-spot and the clitoris.

5. Missionary

World’s most popular sex position for a reason, you both lay on each other, face to face. It also combines deep stimulation and intimacy. You can still make out while doing the missionary position.

6. Doggy

The famous position that has the lady on all fours is also good for deep penetration. The angle of this position gives deep penetration and g-spot stimulation, says Kerner. The guy can use his hands for other action such as stimulating the clitoris or nipple action.

7. The Caboose

This is modified ‘lapping’ in Nigerian lingo. The guy is seated, and the lady sits into the inner thighs of the man backing the guy. Since this probably isn't your go-to position, it’ll feel like a whole new world down there, says Kerner. The penetration here can feel deeper than it actually is.

8. Scoop me up

The couple lay side by side in the spooning position, while she bends her knees slightly, and the guy penetrates from behind. He has more leverage and support so he can wedge himself in a way that gives maximum depth, says Kerner. This is good for G-spot stimulations.

9. Seashell

Let her lay on her back with her legs elevated, let the ankles go far back towards the sides as possible, then he enters in between in missionary position. The legs are spread wide, lending more depth, says Kerner.

10. Butter Churner

Let her lay back in the plow position with her ankled on either side of her head. He will squat then dip the penis in and out for thrusting. This one is all about the newness, says Kerner. Blood rushes to the head in this position, which will add fresh sensations.

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11. The OM

The guy sits with his legs crossed, the lady then sits on his lap facing him. Her legs are wrapped around his back, rocking back and forth. This position is all about opening yourself up—especially your legs and hips, he says.

Here, you can get deep in more ways than one: Lock eyes with your partner as you climax for added intimacy, says Kerner

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INSPECTOR GENERAL OF POLICE (IGP) IDRIS IBRAHIM KPOTUN WAS SHOT BY UNKNOWN HARSAMEN

INSPECTOR GENERAL OF POLICE (IGP)  IDRIS IBRAHIM KPOTUN was shot on Tuesday  evening  8^th May, 2018 along Lokoja - Abuja Express way by unknown Harsamen as he was on his way going to Nigeria Police Headquarter Abuja. May his Gentle Soul Rest in Perfect peace Amen 

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HERE'S 5 THINGS STRAIGHT COUPLES CAN LEARN FROM GAY RELATIONSHIPS

The dynamics of a homosexual relationship often differ from that of a heterosexual ones and in those differences, we can pick up a few valuable lessons.

It's no secret that the dynamics of a gay relationship are vastly different to that of a straight one. Two men in a relationship navigate things entirely differently than a man and a woman mostly due to different expectations, both personal and societal, and different value systems. Here's 5 things that straight couples could learn from gay couples.

Of course, these rules aren't set in stone because we have to make way for individual differences but when we look at the general model of homosexual relationships, there are certainly a few things we can understand work well and we can adopt into heterosexual ones.

1. Learn to live independently

Since men have traditionally been socialised to be independent, maintaining a degree of privacy and flexibility within a relationship is key. Whether this means having a separate vocation or hobby, or establishing physical boundaries, such as creating separate spaces within the home, it really does work.

Maintaining some sense of autonomy makes being with your mate more enjoyable in the long run.

2. Marriage is not always the answer

The fight for gay marriage still goes on in many countries all over the world, but is still unrecognised by most. Despite this, there are still many happy gay couples out there. Why is that?

Well, the stability of any relationship does not come from a somewhat false security that marriage can provide but from commitment and approaching life together as a "we” rather than an "I". Being truthful and authentic provides the best kind of satisfaction that any couple can have.

 Just go for it, married or otherwise!

3. It helps to break free of traditional gender roles.

Gay male couples often run their homes without designated gender roles. The benefits of this practice include applying the best of each person’s problem-solving skills, joint decision-making, and the shared experience of meeting challenges and basking in accomplishments together.

Doing away with the expected roles results in an inclusive, embracing atmosphere and a sense of fun and freedom.

It's important that you are able and willing to reinvent and rethink traditional relationships and try out different models of being together so you can work out what works best for YOU and not what society tells you should work best for you.

4. Learn to be more sexually liberated

Homosexual couples are typically more sexually liberated. There is less inhibition based on prescribed sexual roles and what society thinks is appropriate. They are more apt to explore the full spectrum of sexual pleasure.

They are also able to communicate their desires in the bedroom more readily without fear of reproach.

Typically, same-sex couples do not exhibit sexual “hang ups” as frequently as straight couples.

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5. Love isn't always a fairy tale

Films which depict homosexual relationships are generally quite far-removed from the fairy tale rom- com ideal therefore gay people tend to be more pragmatic and realistic about the extreme challenges of falling in and out of love and staying together.

Realistic expectations and understanding that relationships aren't always flowers, chocolates and romance mean you are better equipped to deal with the conflict, the disappointment and more often that not, the mundane aspects of a relationship.

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5 SIGNS THAT YOU'RE STUCK IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE

All marriages go through ups and downs but if you recognise these signs, your problems might be more serious than you thought.

Making the decision to leave a marriage is scary especially when you fear being alone and the uncertainty of the future. So many stick with it, settling for pain and dissatisfaction instead and if you're not sure, here are 5 signs that you're stuck in a loveless marriage.

 

Staying in an unhappy marriage can have long-term effects on our mental and emotional health.Research shows that people in bad marriages usually have low self-esteem, struggle with anxiety and depression. Often people feel sad and grieve when they decide to let go but people who divorce do recover emotionally.

If any of these signs mean something to you then it's time to take a long hard look at the state of your marriage.

1. You don't have anything to say to each other

When something comes up in life, whether that's a work event or any accomplishment and your partner isn't the first person you're sharing it with, or one of the first, it means that you prefer to get your needs mets outside the relationship.

Not having any meaningful conversations aside from rudimentary conversations about chores and things that need to get done is a warning sign that your relationship is not in a good place.

2. The void between you keeps growing wider and wider

One way to distinguish between a run-of-the-mill marital rut and a loveless marriage is to ask yourself how long the situation has been this way, and whether it's been steadily worsening.

Most couples go through rough times, but if the difficulties last more than two years, with no sign of relief, you probably should seek professional help. And sooner is always better to avoid passing the point of no return.

3. You dream about a life without your spouse

If you often imagine a happy future without your partner, that's a major sign that things aren't right.

This is a part of the emotional detachment process, during which you may try to convince yourself that you don't care anymore so that the eventual separation feels less painful.

Detaching psychologically by fantasising about having an affair or making plans for the future that don't include your partner can all be signs that you've fallen out of love.

4. You're not be listened to (or listening)

When you sit down to talk with your spouse about what's working and what isn't, do you hear silence? Or does it feel like nothing changes, no matter how vocal you are about your feelings? That's a problem!

The most powerful tool we have for resolving our conflicts is listening and understanding one another.

When we invite our partners to share what we've done to let them down, and when we truly listen and understand their feelings, decades of hurt and anger can easily fade away. Make a point of listening for the underlying emotions and messages in your partner's words.

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5. You're about to have an emotional affair

If you're not happy with your husband, you might be falling into an emotional affair, making another male the priority in your life. And thanks to today's technology, it's easier than ever to get caught up. Technology has allowed people who might never risk having any kind of affair to flirt online.

This creates a situation of 'temptation,' and not everything that takes place online stays online. If your relationship is already on the rocks, giving yourself to someone else, even if it's only online will only make things worse.

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HERE'S 3 WAYS YOU CAN SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE EVEN WHEN IT SEEMS HOPELESS

When your marriage hits the rocks, it might be tempting to ignore it and hope it all blows over but the best cure is prevention. Here's 3 ways to save it.

Wanting to throttle your significant other from time to time is perfectly normal but if you're constantly coming up against the same relationship problem then you'll have to get to the root of the conflict if you want to move forward as a happier, healthier, more connected couple. Here's 3 ways you can save your marriage even when it seems hopeless.

1. Make a list of all the issues you argue or feel hopeless about

Anger does not mean it’s time to fight. Hopelessness does not mean you should just give up on saving your marriage and get divorced. Anger and hopelessness do indicate that there’s a problem, a bump on your marriage path. So begin by asking yourself what exactly you feel angry and hopeless about.

Write out a list of all the issues that you have been arguing about or giving up on. Include on your list the issues that concern your spouse as well as the ones that irritate and frustrate you

2. Drop the attitude

The negative stuff you give each other is totally unhelpful. Negative comments to each other only taint a positive relationship. So, no more criticism, complaints, blame, accusations, anger, sarcasm

digs or snide remarks. No more raised voices or anger escalations either. Stay in the calm zone.

Leave an argument altogether if either of you start to get heated. Calm down so that when you re-engage, you only talk calmly and cooperatively.  

If you want to thrive within your marriage, aim for a ratio of a million to one. That means, do NOT sling mud.

3. Express concerns constructively and make decisions together

A simple way to stay constructive in sensitive conversations is to pick from the following trio of potential sentence starters 

·         "I feel..."

·         "My concern is..."

·         "I would like to..."

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Understanding each other’s concerns is essential for the two of you to begin doing what I call that the win-win. The goal is to reach solutions that please you both. No more aiming to get your way. Aim instead for both of you to feel comfortable with your plan of action.

It's important to notice you have differences, which probably will become evident because you are beginning to argue or to feel hopeless.

Express your underlying concerns. Ask about and list to your partner's concerns. Then create a plan of action responsive to the concerns of both of you.

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WOULD YOU SAY YES TO A MAN WHO HATES ORAL SEX?

Are you one of those who aren't so bothered, or the ones who can't imagine sex without it?

The importance of sex in romantic relationships is well documented in so many places that if you  got a kobo for every time you heard or read about it, you’d probably be a millionaire already.

The thing about sex for couples and partners is that there is no rigid, water-tight definition for what makes it amazing or mind-bowing.

Once partners become used to each other’s bodies and find a balance and rhythm in their sex life, it becomes easy to just coast over waves and waves of pleasure.

This brings us to the issue of women, oral sex and its importance to achieving sexual satisfaction.

Many women have spoken of their inability to achieve orgasm by penetrative sex.

Such women often get off when they get clitoral stimulation with the fingers or orally – most times orally.

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On the other hand, getting head does not mean so much to other women. Sexual satisfaction for such women is not tied to oral sex.

They get more pleasurable sensations from other sexual activities.

From little samples of opinions here and there, it’d seem that it’s a deal breaker for loads of women if a partner does not like giving head.

How true is this? Make your view known in the poll below:

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