THE 3 MOST TERRIBLE EFFECTS OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS

Even after the relationship ends, partners are left bearing emotional scars for a long, long time

Everyone does not get to experience toxic relationships. Those that don’t are actually the lucky few.

It looks like so many people have been involved at some point with a partner who turns out to be nothing like what they initially thought he/she was.

In other cases, the relationship begins in great fashion… affection in place, communication on point and both partners finding it difficult to believe that they could have been so lucky to find real substance among the pool of potential partners.

Sadly, there are more false dawns than lasting relationships, because, somewhere along the line, one partner becomes an ugly contrast of his or her former self.

And for those who have been down this path, the pain is familiar - searing, deep and so intense that the very core of their existence feels it.

In the end, after months or years of hoping something would change, they eventually come to terms with reality and end the relationship.

By the time the relationship is over, however, its effects cannot be quickly wiped away and so you go on bearing them for months or years, depending on how much of yourself you invested and lost in that relationship.

Three of the worst effects of toxic relationships are listed here:

1. It’s addictive

Toxic relationships are usually the type that hold you down worst. You know things have deteriorated, and that your partner is no longer good for you as he once was.

All the traits that made you fall for that babe are now gone with the wind, and you should let her go.

But you won’t be able to because it’ll hurt to let go of what you have with them.

You hope that somewhere in all those terrible things they do, there is still a good man or woman that’ll come bursting forth after a while. And so you wait and wait.

You wait and wait some more, hooked and unable to leave until you are so broken to be perfectly put back together ever again.

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2. It messes you up

There is a common pattern with this type of relationship. Your partner treats you like dirt for as long as possible, and when you decide to let them go, they come crying back to you, saying they are nothing without you and that they’ll be destroyed if you leave.

So you are convinced and remain in the relationship and everything gets back to being good… but it lasts only a while, and they’ll be back doing those same things that hurt, break and kill you inside.

You decide to leave, and the cycle repeats itself.

You are left in the toxic loop, a constant cycle that leaves you messed up, even after you give up on the relationship.

3. Leaves you needing an emotional detox

You know how someone needs to be detoxified after taking harmful substances? That’s how you’ll be after an unhealthy relationship.

A toxic partner drains you of all positive energy and fills you with negative vibes. For a long time after you get out of the relationship, you will still either be bitter, sad, angry, cynical and jaded, or an unbalanced combination of all.

It really does take time to get these out. And maybe the gentle touch of genuine love and affection will help speed up the process.

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5 PETTY THINGS THAT CAN BREAK RELATIONSHIPS

Five things you should watch out for instead of overlooking and underestimating their destructive powers.

Relationships break for many reasons. Some big,  some small. Some reasonable,  some unreasonable. Some unbearable,  and some just plain petty.

When there is an irreconcilable difference that effort and communication could not solve for partners, it is understandable if they split on the basis of such difference but sometimes, some issues are, on paper very easy to overcome and partners would normally be expected to work their way around such issues.

Unfortunately, such seeming little problems have been known to sometimes overcome flourishing relationships.

Here are five of such issues that you should watch out for instead of overlooking and underestimating their destructive powers.

1. Stressing over time of phonecalls

If they said they’d call at 11:30 but it’s 11:45, making a fuss over that little time difference may not be so sensible. Repeatedly stressing over such little details may devolve into bigger issues such that eventually, it would become difficult to believe that the root of all the animosity in the relationship is just a phone-call delayed by 15minutes.

2. Cleanliness

Every couple squabbles about cleanliness. It’s almost inescapable that you’ll scold your partner for dirty underwear that’s been left on the floor for a week. However, realizing that one partner is always going to be cleaner than the other is key.

So make a little adjustment, a little here and there

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3. Small amounts of money

Invariably, every relationship eventually gets to a point where partners loan money from each other, do stuff for each other that require pay-backs and all that.

Be careful to not be the partner that never pays back. And on the flipside, be the partner who also knows better than to react ridiculously every time their partner owes them money.

4. Expecting them to be friends with your friends

Your partner is going to have some friends you’re not crazy about. You’re going to have some friends he’s not crazy about. To expect one another to become best friends with all of your friends is unrealistic, and setting yourselves up for some major fights.

5. Keeping score

Strong couples in healthy relationships don’t keep score or try to prove that one is the 'better' partner.

The moment you start keeping score, you’ve stopped viewing the two of you as a unit and you’ve started looking at this as you versus him.

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5 GREAT REASONS TO BE SENSITIVE TO YOUR PARTNER'S NEEDS

Being considerate is a good trait. Here are five reasons why you should learn it at all costs.

Being sensitive or considerate basically means the act of learning to see things from another person's angle, putting yourself in another's shoes.

Partners need to always strive towards this goal for the following great reasons:

1. Compromise becomes easy to reach

There’ll always be differences between couples every now and then because they are bound to have different outlooks and opinions on certain matters.

Putting one’s self in a partner’s shoes in the case of a lover’s fight helps in the attempt to understand their line of reasoning and even where one still disagrees, reaching a compromise is made a lot easier due to this.

2. Makes the relationship easy

Partners who understand the importance of being considerate to each other, and actually practice it often find that the relationship works better, and things seems to happen more easily for them.

Partner A is considerate enough to give partner B the necessary dose of attention, care, love, loyalty and all other things needed to make a relationship thrive.

Partner B also has no reason not to reciprocate these good deeds, and the cycle continues till the bond becomes stronger and stronger it becomes unbreakable.

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3. Makes you a better person

In all likelihood, if you can practice a great deal of empathy in your relationship, you’ll find yourself being like that with other people.

You no longer judge people rashly, and instead try to reason with them and put yourself in their positions in a bid to understand why they act the way they do.

In the long run, you discover that you’ll become a better judge of character, easier to work with, a more compassionate person, a better dispute resolver and also, you’ll avoid a lot of confrontation and outbursts.

4. Improves your patience

When you are considerate of your partner’s moods, it helps you stay calm in certain annoying circumstances instead of flaring up in rage.

Instead of taking things the wrong way, you react calmly by looking at things from your partner’s point of view and understand them better.

5. Helps you work on your flaws

Being sensitive enough to your partner’s needs helps you amend and try to be a better person for them.

You often ask yourself: ‘if my woman did this to me, how would I feel?’

Of course, you know you wouldn’t like it, so it moves you to change your ways and not do to them what you wouldn’t have them do to you.

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3 WEIRD REASONS WHY YOUR CRUSH FRIEND-ZONED YOU

Of course, there is always a reason for friend-zoning a guy. Here are three of the weirdest ones women use all so frequently.

To 'friendzone' is an act most women are familiar with; one that many have applied on a number of occasions for varying reasons.

The term is used to explain a situation where someone wants to be more than friends with another, but the other person is satisfied with being just friends and refuses to entertain the idea of a romantic relationship.

Ladies are more used to doing this, and of course, there is always a reason for friendzoning a guy.

While there are understandable reasons for doing this, such as being unattracted to the guy in a romantic way - there are also some ridiculous reasons given by babes when friend-zoning a guy and here are some of them:

1. "I know too much about you"

One would expect women to feel comfortable with a guy who no longer has secrets from them, right?

Funny enough, some see this as a reason to not say yes to a friend who hopes to become more than friends with them.

It's ironic that woman want a guy that hides nothing but say no to the one that has shown them everything about himself - past and present.

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2. "You're too nice"

This is pretty hard to explain, too, considering how women generally pine for a guy that will treat them with affection, love and kindness.

3. "You know too much about me"

If a guy knows all the good and bad things about you and still feels he wants you despite all that, then you can be sure he has thought about it and has no qualms with those things, right?

Also, women want a guy who would take them the way they are... someone who recognises the past is the past and would love them regardless.

So while it may necessarily not be wrong, it is ludicrous to say the least when a babe gives this as her reason for friend-zoning someone who truly loves her.

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10 TRUTHS YOUR BOYFRIEND NEVER WANTS TO ADMIT TO YOU

10 instructive things you should know your boyfriend thinks, because he may never tell you himself!

There are things your girlfriend will never want to tell you, just as things your boyfriend will never want to admit to you.

If you are wondering what the things are that your babe will always try to hide from you [they're all cute stuff by the way!] you should check out our previous article here.

And if you are interested in knowing the things your boyfriend may never tell you, here are 10 of them below:

1. You look a little overweight

Women are fond of asking boyfriends for opinions about their looks. So it won’t be surprising that you would want his opinion on whether you whether you look a little plump around the waistline.

But If you are actually expecting him to say yes to that question, you may want to think again.

2. His friends don’t like you

He won’t want to tell you this because, he loves you and that’s what really matters, yeah?

3. He’s not impressed by that 500k weave

But he won’t tell you this so as not to hurt your feelings and effort to ‘look good for him’

4. He doesn’t think much of your best dress

You know that cute dress you are always so hyped and amped-up to wear? Yeah that one you keep in a special place and only bring out when you want to be a total knockout and gorgeous slay queen.

Guess what, your boyfriend may not like it. But he won’t tell you because, why kill your vibe?

5. Your cooking is terrible

Especially if he isn’t a good cook himself or if he’s a lazy one who continually depends on you doing the cooking regularly. He’s not want to admit that the meal is really bad and he’s just chowing on the meals because he has no option.

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6. The sex is boring

He won’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you that you suck at oral sex [no pun intended] or that you could do better with that reverse cowgirl.

But he actually should talk to you about the sex. Because if he doesn’t, your sex life will only get worse and you both don’t need that.

So, maybe it’s time to ask him for an honest assessment so as to see what he really thinks about your sex game.

7. You talk too much

He’d want to keep this away from you more because he doesn’t want you to think he’s insulting you.

8 He doesn’t like your mum

If he doesn’t like your mum or dad, you really can’t expect him to give you this bit of information, do you?

Who does that, right?

9. He thinks your friend is finer than you

Just like the scenario above, who does that?

10. He’s not sure of marriage

But he won’t tell you because he does not even know how to go about giving you this information.

So he’ll stay and keep complicating things because in your own mind, you already see you married to him and carrying his two daughters and two sons.

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15 TRUTHS YOUR GIRLFRIEND NEVER WANTS TO ADMIT TO YOU

Sometimes, some things are really better left unsaid. And for your babe, these are 15 things she'd rather never talk about.

There are few interesting things women would rather never tell you about. And sometimes, it is better for your relationship if some things are better left unsaid.

In the case of these 15 things, women do not really care whether or not you know about these things, they'll just rather not say so themselves.

And, it has to be said; the knowledge of these little secrets does not put your relationship in any form of danger.

Ok? So let's jump straight into it - 15 truths your babe will never easily admit to you!

1. Her best friend knows more

Her best friend knows more about her than you might ever know. That same best friend probably knows too much about you, too.

Of course, that’s because your girl is always telling her about stuff that happens in your relationship.

2. Different sense of timing

When she says, "I'll meet you in 15 minutes," It means she’ll be there in like 40 minutes.

But hey, don’t we all know this?

3. She's not really mad that you're busy

Even though she may complain that you work too hard, she finds it sexy watching you put in effort into making yourself [and her] better.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t create time for her though.

4. She knows a lot about your exes

She has Googled your ex[es] and knows at least one of their social media handles.

5. She compares

She still thinks about her ex-boyfriends and compares them to you.

Sometimes you come out better. Sometimes not. It’s nothing to worry about.

6. Secret porn

She's probably seen more porn than she might ever admit.

7. Body count

She’ll never tell you exactly how many men she's slept with.

8. She likes dirty talk

wants you to talk dirty a little. Maybe more than a little some times.

No matter how prudent she appears to others. A part of her needs to know that the thought of her body drives you nuts.

9. Sneaky tests

She tests you more than you know.

She observes, analyzes, and judges every action, word, gesture, email, and facial expression.

10. She checks you out

She checks out your butt. A whole lot.

11. Lowkey requests

She needs constant indications that you want her around. That's why she says “What are you up to this weekend?” instead of outrightly saying she wants to spend time with you that weekend.

12. She has wild thoughts

She fantasized about having sex with you at least a dozen times before it actually happened.

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13. She needs assurance

She sometimes starts fights with you because she's feeling ignored.

She just wants your attention in any manner possible. Better a squabble than getting the mute treatment.

14. She likes it when you get the bill

Even if she insists on paying or splitting the bill on your first date, she’ll very likely think you're cheap if you let her.

15. The end

If she's going to break up with you, her friends know way before you do.

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